In the process of growing up, many people are taught to be a good child who is "obedient", to be more considerate of the feelings of others, and to give in more. This kind of teaching makes many people afraid to express their needs, or dare not pursue personal development, and thus wronged themselves.
Many women mistakenly believe that as long as they are good to others, others will be good to themselves. However, this is not the case. If a person treats another person well without a bottom line, or just behaves "well-behaved", it will often only make the other person feel bored, and even stimulate the malice in the other person's heart, and unconsciously want to bully or hurt you, thus making you a weak person in the relationship.
On the contrary, those women who seem to be a little "bad" can make men fall in love, and once they get them, men will take care of them like babies, for fear of losing something. Why is there such a big difference between these two types of women?
In fact, women who are pampered by men are often a little "bad" in some ways. First of all, there is something "bad" in terms of speaking. Many women are very straightforward in their relationships and seem to be very sincere, but their outspoken words are often hurtful, unpleasant to men, and can even affect the relationship between the two.
On the contrary, a woman who is pampered by a man knows how to provide emotional support to a man, never stingy with her admiration and recognition of a man, and always warms the other person's heart with words. While these words may sound a little false, men tend to be happy because of them. In contrast, some women are afraid to praise men, fearing that they will be proud of it. However, women who know how to please men with words are well aware that the purpose of doing so is only to make men love themselves more.
Secondly, the purpose of being with a man is somewhat "bad". Many women often forget about themselves in their relationships and are willing to sacrifice everything for each other. However, this kind of selfless devotion of love is not what men expect. Men tend to prefer the fruit they like over the fruit that women think they like for men. Women may ignore men's needs and give on their own, only to put pressure and burden on men. On the contrary, there are women who have their own purposes when approaching men, and they will use men to achieve their goals, but their methods make men feel happy and even willingly satisfy their needs. This kind of woman is not selfish, but knows how to cater to the psychology of men, so as to achieve her own goals.
Finally, some women will pinch men in their relationship. Many women will selflessly give for their men in their relationships and put themselves on the back burner. However, in the long run, men will take it for granted. On the contrary, some women know how to grasp the psychology of men, and do not play cards according to common sense, so as to guide men to pay for themselves and meet their own needs at the same time. This kind of woman seems to be a bit hypocritical, but they clearly know that only in this way can they gain the favor of men.
In short, women who are pampered by men are often able to weigh the pros and cons and know how to cater to men's psychology in order to achieve their goals. They are well aware that relationships are mutual, and that they can only last long on the basis of mutual satisfaction. As a result, they will show some "bad" traits in the relationship, so that the man willingly pays for them and becomes a treasure in their hearts.