Family education is very important for the development of children, parents must pay attention to their children's behavior at home, to correct their children's deficiencies in a timely manner, to develop children's good character and teach children to develop a good habit of diligence and thrift. Kyushu Gold List Family Education will talk about the methods and skills in family education from the following aspects.
1. Parents lead by example.
Parents must lead by example in educating their children, so that they can cultivate good habits in their children. For example, saving this aspect, do not waste a grain of food, when eating, parents set an example, do not waste a grain of rice, parents do, so that after the child sees it, it will also follow the learning, after a long time, the habit will be formed, so let the child have good habits, it is necessary to lead by example.
2. Reprimand but not corporal punishment.
If the child makes a mistake, as a parent, you can reprimand the child and let the child know that ** has made a mistake, but do not punish the child at will, if the child is punished at will, it will cause a psychological shadow to the child. To make mistakes and be naughty to children, the first is to reprimand, such as children throwing things at will, as parents should let children pick up the still things immediately, otherwise there will be serious consequences, so that the children will generally pick up the still things. In short, do not arbitrarily punish children.
3. Encourage your child.
Children need more encouragement, and many parents may wonder why? In fact, children also have self-esteem, when parents criticize their children, children will be uncomfortable for a long time, which will also be very damaging to children's enthusiasm, if parents encourage children, children will be full of energy, such as children write badly, parents tell children, I believe you can write better, children will be very cooperative with parents when they hear, and children will be in a happy mood, which will also stimulate children's enthusiasm, so encourage children more, do not do critical education, do more encouraging education.
4. Set an example.
Children also need role models, and setting a good example for your child can help bring out the best in your child. For example, when a child is studying, the classmates in the class can be used as a role model, but do not speak with negative energy, but with positive energy, for example, your class xx classmates study so well, usually at home must study very seriously, I believe you can too, you are as smart as him, and your academic performance will be as good as him. This can also stimulate the child's desire to win and motivate the child to move forward.
5. Give appropriate rewards to your children.
Punish your child when he makes a mistake, and reward him when he or she behaves well. Reward should not be a monetary reward, you can give appropriate material rewards, such as the child's test score is very good, the child likes a certain thing, parents can give the child to buy and give to the child, which can stimulate the child's learning motivation, but also let the child be spiritually satisfied.
In short, parents are the first responsible person for educating children, and children will see what parents do and remember in their hearts. Parents' behavior and habits will affect their children's lives, as parents set a good example for their children, and achieve their children's extraordinary lives!