Seeing the innocent smiles of the children, people can't help but want to tease them. However, being funny also needs to be measured, and some jokes should never be easily exported, especially for 3 or 6 year olds. Children at this age are at a critical time in their cognitive development, and joking is likely to cast a shadow on them for a lifetime.
Some elderly people like to tease their children with words that are different from ordinary people's thinking, such as "If your parents are divorced, do you choose to go with your father or with your mother?" Or, "If your mother has a second child, everything in the family belongs to your brother." "There are even people who say that the child was picked up from outside. These words are undoubtedly a great harm to children. Children lack cognitive abilities and can only silently endure these foreign subordinate languages.
Therefore, as adults, we should pay more attention to the education and care of children. When communicating with children, we should try to avoid using offensive and hurtful words, so as not to bring unnecessary psychological burden to children. At the same time, we should also educate children how to correctly face and process information and remarks from the outside world, so that they can establish correct values and outlook on life from an early age. Only in this way can we truly create a healthy, harmonious and beautiful environment for children to grow up.