In the unit, the leader suddenly talks to you and asks you about some family chores or difficulties at work, don't dig out your heart and lungs, say anything!
Are you idle as a leader, without any purpose, looking for you to waste time?
On the surface, he cares about your development, but you don't keep your mouth shut, and you confide in all the things you want to take the selection and want to change departments, and the leader smiles contemptuously in his heart, the temple is too small to fit you! Can you go!
He encourages you to stumble in private, and if you leave, who will do this pile of work?!
Next, I will give you even more hard work, and the awards and promotions have nothing to do with you, anyway, you are leaving, what am I training you for?
And you don't know that it was because of the last pleasant and warm "heart-to-heart talk".
On the surface, it is concerned about your family, and the usual chatting is actually to probe your family background and test whether you are good at it, of course, it is not excluded that you may find a blame for the error of a certain job.
Have you ever been approached by anyone who has handled such a job?
What's so difficult about doing your job?
You must remember:
You are facing a leader with 800 hearts and eyes, and you must be vigilant, the first seven sentences of ten sentences are his bait, and this "bait" looks warm and sounds comfortable.
The last three sentences may be his real purpose, and the best way in this case is to pretend to be stupid if you can't beat it!
If you have difficulties, you should figure out your own way, and don't hope that the leader will "care";
Don't talk about your own family situation, so as not to expose your weaknesses.