Most people always do things with utilitarianism, and only find ways to do things that are beneficial to themselves, which may be the weakness of human nature.
Many people want to get something out of everything they do, but they are not willing to share a little happiness with others, and such a small amount of energy will not make a big deal.
It is true that everyone wants something from other people, such as help, support, approval, praise, but forgets the most important thing, which is happiness.
If we can make others happy, we ourselves will be happy, which is more important than getting anything else, and it is something that does not require anything in return.
Even if a long time has passed, when I think of those things that make people happy, I will shine with joy and light.
In fact, you should do unto others as you would like them to be treated.
You want everyone you come into contact with to agree with you, you want others to recognize your value, you want to have a sense of self-respect. You crave sincere, heartfelt appreciation. This is the desire in the heart of everyone, including you.
Sincerity is a force of appreciation from the heart. Sincerity is praise, and generosity is praise. All people need this sincerity.
Everyone thinks that they are better in some aspects and have many strengths that are superior to others, which is human nature and cannot be evaluated too much.
So, the best way to reach them is to subtly express that you sincerely believe that they are important.
It's fascinating to always make others feel important. Doing this will bring you many friends and will also bring you eternal happiness. Failure to do so will lead us to countless inevitable difficulties and contradictions.
Everyone we meet has more or less superior places than us, and learning from them in these areas is the best way to grow.
If we are always complacent about our little success, we will only end up with the disgust and hatred of others.
Good results can be achieved by showing genuine appreciation for the hobbies and achievements of others.
Because, everyone craves the appreciation of others.
Life is very flavorful