In this world, there is one of the most desirable things, and that is not to get it!When you don't get it, you always feel that it is the most perfect, the happiest, the most beautiful. That unattainable longing seems to have become a kind of beauty, which makes us crave it over and over again, obsessed over and over again, and persist over and over again. Sometimes what you can't get is the most exciting. People, we always want to get better, and forget the beauty that is already around us. Although the food is good, the person who masters it is not inseparable from the dregs in the pot, because the dregs are the source of making the food more beautiful. But when we get delicious food, we no longer cherish it, and we lose our happiness instead. So, how do we grasp what we have and cherish everything in front of us?Perhaps, we need to learn to be grateful in receiving, and know how to cherish in holding in order to have true happiness. 
What you can't get is always just looking good, in fact, the scenery in the distance is almost the same, often looks beautiful, this is because distance produces beauty, but when you get close to it, you will find that, in fact, it is all the same, or even as beautiful as what you saw before. Beauty, in fact, has always been in your heart, always by your side, you just didn't take it to heart!People are always interested in things that cannot be obtained, because they are like distant stars, but they are difficult to touch in front of them. This feeling is like a delicious taste that has whetted the appetite, which makes people both expectant and helpless, maybe a little happy, but more of a helpless luxury. After all, there are some things in the world that you can't have just to look at, but people always can't extricate themselves from pursuing. 
Many couples feel that their partner is not as good as someone else's, and it seems that there are always better options waiting for them. This is because we are too familiar with our own partners and only see their shortcomings and shortcomings, while for other people's partners, we can only wait and see their strengths and goodness. This psychological gap has also become one of the reasons for the breakdown of many marriages. When we find out that our partner is not as good as we imagined, we feel lost and frustrated, unable to understand why someone else's partner can be more perfect and happy. However, we should understand that everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and there is no perfect partner, only the right one for you. Therefore, we need to let go of the pursuit of perfection, cherish the sparkle in front of us, and strive to make our marriage deeper and stronger. To live in the world, people must know how to cherish what they have in front of them. It doesn't look good, but it's better to have than not to get. Don't blindly fantasize about what you can't get, or you'll end up with an unhappy life. Trust me, what you have is better than what you can't get. Be grateful for everything around you, and don't expect things that are just superficial. Only in this way can you attain true happiness. 
The most precious thing is what you have, and you must know how to be grateful and be content and happy. What you can't get, no matter how good it is, doesn't belong to you. Learn to cherish and cherish what you have, in order to appreciate the beauty of life. The most precious thing in life is what you have. Know how to be content, and don't be greedy for what you can't get. Even the best things may not belong to you. Don't go after what you can't have, as it may cost you what you already have. If so, your failure is not only not getting what you want, but also losing what you already have. Don't lose what you have precious for your own desires, it's too uncost-effective. So, understand that what you have is the most precious. Sometimes, we lose what we have because we take it for granted. We always think that certain things or certain people will never leave us, so we no longer cherish them and no longer put our minds on them. As everyone knows, if we don't deal with them well, we will lose them. Affection is one of them. If we don't cherish it properly, it will fade and eventually disappear. Don't take everything for granted, don't save yourself from the care of your heart. We must value everything we have, especially what matters most. Only in this way can we truly enjoy life and have a bright future. 
We all know what's right, but why can't we do it? In other words, it's not that it's completely impossible, but it's a little unwilling in my heart. We always want to have a better life, to have something better, but this kind of thinking is like an endless loop, because you get better, you want better, and you can never be completely satisfied. However, it is only when we learn to be content that we can have our best happiness. As human beings, we should not always look at the things in other people's hands and feel envious, but we can't enjoy the happiness in our own hands. No matter how delicious there is in other people's bowls, how tempting the pot is, the most delicious taste in your own mouth will always be your own. Don't always think about what you can't get, because we can't change them or make them our own. We should cherish what we have in our hands more and be grateful for the kindness of those around us. In this way, our lives will be better. Let's let go of those little things and truly cherish what we have. 
There is nothing more beautiful in the world than what you can't have! Although we often feel that what we can't get is the most precious, in essence, what we need to have is the beauty that belongs to us. Those desires that cannot be obtained, no matter how glamorous they may be, seem to you to be only distant fantasies that cannot be fulfilled. True beauty can only be obtained through one's own diligence and unremitting efforts. May you be positive and optimistic and have a good time!