My first job was in a travel agency. At that time, I had just graduated from college and was ignorant, so the company assigned a senior to lead me to familiarize myself with the work. On the first day of meeting, this senior was quite friendly, and talked to me about school and family matters, I thought I had met a good colleague, but I didn't expect that when the senior really started to teach me, everything changed.
Recently found annoying colleagues
It turned out that he had the second disease of the society mentioned by Japanese netizens
Every time she asked her seniors a question, she always didn't answer directly, but said in a strange tone like a teacher teaching a child: What do you think? Would you like to see it again? But what I asked was obviously who to ask for a reflection when the photocopy paper ran out, and the direct answer to who was not only time-saving and labor-saving, but the seniors wanted me to think about it myself, and after listening to it, I turned the table directly in my heart.
Later, I worked more and more, and finally worked overtime until nine o'clock almost every day, and I couldn't help but spit out bitterness with my seniors, but my seniors used a condescending attitude, saying that I was still too young, and insinuated that now college freshmen are so pampered Oh, but often things are stuck in the hands of this senior, and if she doesn't pass on the work, she will be all stuck.
There are too many things about this senior, who pretend to be high-minded, and I can't finish talking about it. What made me even more dumbfounded was that I later learned that this senior was only two years older than me, and he had only been in this industry for a year, and he had a shelf but no lining, no wonder the more she explained many things, the more confused and wrong she became, and later I was often helping her clean up the mess.
Recently, I was chatting with a Japanese friend, and he said that they have a word called "social second disease", and after digging deeper, I found that the annoying colleague is completely a patient of "social second disease".
The second disease of the society ≠ the second disease of the middle school
The second disease is not the same as the second disease.
Secondary 2 Disease is about people who seem to be going through puberty, self-centered, emotionally excessive, and often speak superficial and childish things with confidence, feeling that they are the center of the universe, the protagonist of a movie story, and everyone else is stupid.
Social second disease refers to the kind of phenomenon that has been out of society for one to two years, has just adapted to the best social and workplace culture, thinks that he has a lot of life experience, and his self-centeredness is over-inflated, but it is difficult to hide a sense of "children pretending to be adults".
The following are the common symptoms of social diseases, do you have such people around you?
01.Likes to emphasize how busy you are
People with social two diseases like to create an image that they are very busy, such as casually saying that I am working on holidays, or that I didn't go home until 10 o'clock yesterday, and that I feel that my sacrifice and dedication are great, but in fact I am implying that I am a responsible adult, unlike other strawberry people who have low stress tolerance and do not take their work seriously.
02.I love to put the word "sophistication" on my lips
People with social two diseases often read a few business books, social science books, or chicken soup for the soul in the workplace, and think that they have a complete understanding. Obviously there is a problem with the company's system, but he wants to say that "society is like this", and even if something unreasonable happens, he wants to tell you to understand the sophistication of human feelings. In short, there is no distinction between right and wrong, and he loves to pretend to be an adult, but he does not have enough life experience to support it.
03.I always use technical terms or foreign terms on my lips
When chatting or posting social posts, the second social disease always throws out some professional terms from time to time, and occasionally intersperses some foreign terms, in addition to showing off how good he is, he also squeezes his own self-directed and self-acting superiority from others, you can't understand those professional terms, it's not his problem, but that you are too lonely and unheard.
04.Obviously not a few years older
But he likes to use the posture of his predecessors to warn others
When I was in college, I often saw the sophomore seniors looking at the freshman siblings and lamenting their "old idiocy" over there. The second disease patient inherited such a peculiar mentality, not a few years older than others, and not necessarily more experience and ability, but always like to think of himself as a senior, saying something You are still young, just enjoy it Society is very cruel, not what you think When you meet it, you will know Wait for the old-fashioned words.
05.When others are in trouble, they secretly feel complacent in their hearts
When you talk to patients with social two diseases about the difficulties they encounter at work, they seem to be listening to you on the surface, but in fact they are proud and complacent in their hearts, thinking: He even finds this kind of thing difficult, but I have adapted to such a challenge! 」
In short, whether it is the second disease or the second social disease, it is a manifestation of naivety and self-centeredness, and the core is "I'm so good".