In the whirlwind of emotion, the man a woman once loved deeply, no matter how many years have passed, cannot be erased from her heart. This kind of attachment stems from the true love that a woman has once poured into, even if that love cannot last forever, it will leave unforgettable regrets in her heart. Women, on the other hand, cannot easily get rid of their past, whether through love or hurt. In the future, they will still recall that hurtful love from time to time. So why is it so hard for women to forget their "old lovers"? There may be three more practical reasons.
1. A woman's heart will regret it when she can't love someone.
In previous relationships, women want to give all their true feelings and spend married life hand in hand with their beloved. However, due to various reasons, the relationship eventually parted ways. For women, this is a huge blow. After the two waved goodbye, the woman's heart was like a knife, crying silently, and the deep pain in her heart could not be dissipated. Whenever a woman thinks of a man she loves but can't, endless emotions wells up in her heart, and the remorse in her heart is so strong that it makes it difficult for her to forget the past. Perhaps the details of life, familiar things, songs that have been enjoyed with a lover, etc., may awaken sad memories buried deep in a woman's heart. Because of this, they constantly reminisce about that beautiful but damaged love, and their hearts are immersed in endless sadness.
A woman may not be able to give up on the man she loves, even if she later experiences a new love. The regrets and good things left behind will always accompany you and will not pass away with the wind.
2.She especially hates men who hurt her when someone is unkind.
In past relationships, even if a woman gave her all, it would be painful if she was betrayed by a man. Perhaps the women thought they had found true love at the time and did not hesitate to give themselves to each other. However, at a young age, they may not be able to recognize a man's true heart and may feel emotionally disappointed or hurt.
Even after a breakup, it is difficult for a woman to forget her ex, and she will even be full of hatred and unable to ** emotional trauma. In the future, whenever a woman thinks of her hurtful past, she will be haunted by undeserved love and the pain left behind after the hurt, and she will cry.
The true story is Yu's experience. She once dated a boyfriend and thought she had found true love. Her boyfriend is considerate of her, often giving her gifts and planning romantic events full of intoxicating rituals for her. Her boyfriend made a promise to her and offered to marry her and build a happy future for her.
However, when Ms. Yu accidentally discovers that her boyfriend is having an affair with another girl, her beautiful dream is shattered in an instant. It wasn't until she saw her boyfriend holding hands and hugging the girl that she knew he had changed his mind. At that time, Yu lived with her boyfriend for nearly half a year and gave everything for this relationship, but was betrayed and hurt. In the end, she chose to leave in pain, but the pain always hung over her heart. Although I got married later, every time I think of my old lover, my heart hurts, he is not worthy of me, and I start to hate him even more.
3. I was entangled with my ex-lover and couldn't completely break off the relationship.
The third reason why women can't forget their ex-lovers is that they may become entangled with their ex-lovers and can't break the relationship completely. Relationship. Even if a woman wants to let go of the past, her ex-lover will often come to her, making it impossible for her to really break up. There are men who want to redeem their woman even after the relationship is over and keep looking for her in an attempt to rekindle their past love. Or, the man, out of some kind of psychological satisfaction, constantly pesters the woman, hoping to maintain some kind of romantic relationship, and continues to stalk the woman. In addition, some ex-lovers behave badly and like to constantly communicate with women by sending messages, calling, etc., making it difficult for women to feel safe.
Even if a woman deletes her ***, her ex-boyfriend will continue to visit her in person, disrupting her life, and the relationship will still be severed. When faced with this bondage, it becomes difficult for a woman to forget her past, which brings more annoyance and pain to her life and emotions.
To sum up, the main reasons why women can't forget their "old boyfriends" are:
The people a woman has loved deeply, or who have hurt her, have become memories that she cannot erase. There may be regret and hatred in this relationship, but no matter what kind of feelings, it will leave deep scars in a woman's heart. It also reminds women to maintain principles and minimums in interpersonal relationships, value themselves, and don't easily give up uncertain relationships.