When love stands the test of time, marriage becomes a tacit agreement, and one of the most important factors is communication. However, no matter how hard you try to maintain the relationship, communication difficulties will inevitably arise. The marriage of wheat and her husband is a vivid example of how to face the challenges in marriage and find solutions through communication.
Marriage is a family that both parties must maintain together. However, if one party does not communicate well, the family can become lonely and aloof. The story of Wheat and her husband began with communication problems. Once upon a time, they were a loving couple, and a word from wheat could affect the husband's mood, and they could tolerate each other's misfortunes and spend a good time together. However, after getting married, my husband's attitude began to change and he became less considerate and considerate. This change left Wheat feeling lost and tired, expecting her husband's understanding and concern, but in reality, all communication turned into arguments and accusations. Wheat felt suffocated by the relationship and began to question whether her marriage was worth continuing.
Caring and considerate are essential elements in a marriage. However, when couples lose the ability to take care of each other, the relationship declines. In Mai's marriage, the lack of care is reflected in her husband's indifferent attitude towards her. Whenever Mai needs her husband's care or attention, he chooses to turn a blind eye and even blame her. This reaction left Wheat feeling isolated and helpless, and she began to doubt the true meaning of the marriage. Even when Mai had a fever, she was unable to get her husband's attention, and his indifference made their marriage even more disappointing. Due to the lack of care, the couple's relationship became more and more estranged and the relationship gradually broke down.
When our marriage is challenged, we often expect the other person to make changes. But if the other party doesn't change, shouldn't we give up expectations and accept reality? Wheat's story teaches us that change doesn't happen overnight, especially when the other side has developed unique patterns. The husband's attitude is consistent, choosing to avoid and blame, whether it is communication problems or lack of care. Wheat, on the other hand, has finally figured this out through constant trial and struggle. She understands that it takes time and effort for a person to change, so all she can do is accept the reality and protect her heart.
Even if the boundaries between love and marriage become smoother and smoother over time, can we still regain the happiness we once had? Maybe the answer isn't the only one, but at least we can hope that you can let go, accept reality, and choose to live more comfortably. Like Wheat, she faced many challenges in her marriage, but she chose to give up her expectations to protect herself and live a happier life. I hope that everyone who has experienced marriage can find their own happiness and satisfaction in life.