Junior high school is a critical period for the formation and shaping of children's three views, if there is no correct family education to guide and help during this period, it is difficult for children to form correct three views, which will not only affect children's learning and life, but also affect children's life. In the face of a new environment and period, only when parents pay more attention to family education, children can easily connect with junior high school.1. Ideological guidanceTaking off the childishness of elementary school, junior high school students are full of signs of eagerness to grow up, and they are energetic to learn about the world, but at the same timeThe mind is still in its inflicted stage, so problems of one kind or another may ariseAt this time, the importance of family education is highlightedIn this process, parents should pay close attention to their children's thoughts and guide their children from many aspects such as ideological education and moral character。However, in the process of teaching, parents should not blindly talk about big truths or even dictate, but should use specific things in life to discuss with their children, after understanding their children's ideasGive recognition and praise for the good side of the child, and give understanding and guidance to correct the less correct side.
Second, the goal encouragement method
Objectives are extremely important in the learning processWithout a goal, it's easy to get lost in the unknown。Therefore, parents should help their children set phased goals so that they can climb to the top step by step. When parents help their children set goals, they must be based on the actual situation, neither too ambitious nor too passableOnly scientific goals can motivate children。In addition to that,Parents also need to understand the importance of encouragement and rewardsWhen a child completes a certain stage goal, parents must give certain praise and rewards, so that the child will be more willing to challenge himself and improve himself.
3. Image inspiration method
Want the child to haveGood grades and conduct are inseparable from the influence of role models, and the most suitable and easiest people to become role models for children are parentsTherefore, parents must pay attention to their words and deeds, set a good example for their children, and let their children become a person who must do what they say and do by setting an example.
Fourth, talk about the counseling method
InIn the day and night with the child, parents should persevereThe principle of three services1. Be diligent in understanding the children's thoughts and concepts in the learning process; Second, diligence is to observe the mental state of children in the learning process; Three diligence is diligence and communicate with children。In addition, when parents talk to their children and make ideas, try not to use words such as "you have to do this" and "you should do this", but should be softer, such as "do you think this is better" and "will the result be different if you do this".
5. Life Adjustment Method
The body is the capital of the revolution, and only with a strong body can we better devote ourselves to learning。Therefore, parents should arrange their children's dietary nutrition scientifically and reasonably in life, so that children can first have the conditions to eat and drink well. In addition, parents may wish to take their children out for a walk on holidays and weekends, so that their children can see and experience moreBroaden children's horizons and make them more open-minded and idealistic.