When a family's second child arrives, it is both joy and trouble. My brother-in-law's family gave birth to a second child, and the child's father is very happy, and he posts baby photos in the circle of friends every day. It didn't take long for this joy to be overshadowed by annoyance. The two children have a lot of housework, and the grandparents and grandparents take turns to help, plus the nanny goes together. The child is the most wonderful creature in this world, and when he comes it is the baby that God has given to this family. When happiness comes, responsibility comes, and obligation comes.
Why can family education reduce the pressure on parents with a second child?(We won't talk about twins here).
First of all, when we parents raise older children, we should pay attention to the cultivation of life rules and the cultivation of independent ability from an early age. At the same time, parents should also pay attention to the endowment of love, so that older children have self-confidence and self-esteem. Let children have good Xi and do their own things. We help to do the things of adults, too, and here is to emphasize this awareness. Parents learn the experience of nurturing their children from raising older children.
When parents are ready to have a second child, discuss it with the older child and let the child participate in the opinions and opinions. Let the boss know how to care about the second child in the belly. Specifically, you can do this: the boss and the second child in the stomach listen to ** together, the boss tells the second child a story, the boss gives the second child a name, etc.
Secondly, when the second child comes to this world, first prepare a gift (parents are responsible for preparation) to the eldest child, saying that it is our whole family to celebrate, and the parents give it, reminding the eldest to be ready to accept a responsibility and take care of the second child. The child is naturally responsible, and he will take the initiative to accept this responsibility. The father took the initiative to care for the boss. Parents will feel significantly less stressed.
Secondly, because the eldest has good Xi habits and life rules, the example behavior given to the second child plays a great role in life, we only need to point out, and both children can develop good Xi habits and good cultivation. The eldest with the second, although clumsy, but very cute and serious, as long as the love of our parents is enough, with two babies and with a baby is almost the same. Parents should not take sides. Do not meddle in conflicts between children, and do not blame another child in front of one child. Buy something and let the boss help the second child choose and improve the boss's self-confidence. When the eldest goes to school, give the second child a real escort, so that the children know that we love them the most.
In the end, we put family education on the eldest to achieve a regular life, children are independent, and have good cultivation. It's much easier for us to have a second child, with a little helper, a little teacher, and a father who loves mom, and the love in your family is going to burst.
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