I deserve all the good!
People who live beautifully and happily have one thing in common:Be unconditionally confident in yourself and dare to pursue all the good things you want. They think they deserve the best of everything.
Their lives areBroadof、Brightof、Colorfulof、So,They have more and more
However, many more people have never had such thoughts and feelings, and do not even dare to have such beliefs.
Their beliefs are roughly as follows:
Some people say, this is the end of my life, destined to be lonely all my life!
Some people say, I'm not that good at life, just find someone to make do with it!
Some people say that I can't hope for such a good job in my life!
Some people say that those famous brands are useless, so I should buy cheap and discounted things!
Some people say that the house prices are so high now that I can't afford it!
Some people say, why do I have all this good luck, I feel panicked, a strong sense of unreality!
In psychology, this is called"A sense of unworthiness".。It is precisely because of this "sense of unworthiness" that there are many fewer possibilities in our lives.
How can we overcome the feeling of unworthiness that is the biggest obstacle to a happy and fulfilling life for many people?
There are many people who will suggest, spend more money, buy expensive ones, be cruel to yourself, and tell yourself, I am worth it!
Such recommendations tend to address the symptoms rather than the root causes.
A person's spiritual stability and prosperity are not built up by material things. It depends on the strength of the heart.
If someone really spends excessively in order to get rid of the "feeling of unworthiness", when checking the pitiful balance of the bank card, not only does the "sense of unworthiness" not quit, but also feels that they have been abandoned by life.
To overcome the "feeling of unworthiness", we must first understand the reasons why it arises.
Since childhood, I have lived in an environment that is not valued and not paid attention to, and my various needs and feelings are always ignored.
When you grow up, you willHabitually ignoring one's own needs, habitually thinking that they are "unworthy" of a good life.
If you want to break this deadlock in life, you have to start withChange your thinking habitsBegin.
Your mission in life is to find your own worth, which is the greatest gift you can give to the world.
Why we inherently feel unworthy
Did you know that almost every relationship trauma is intertwined with questions of self-worth?
In fact, the feeling of unworthiness (unworthiness) drives us to create the life we desire most to heal our emotional wounds.
To create consciously, we must overcome our fear of not being worthy, and in order to do that, first, we must understand why we inherently feel unworthy.
Like most of the "subliminal plays, worthless programs" are often passed down from our managers without even realizing it.
But even if you're lucky enough to not inherit the program, by the time you reach elementary school, the program officially begins.
On the first day of the first grade, we were entered into no right or wrong, unworthy, ineligible, plus or no plus value.
Year after year, after every test and evaluation, we have to prove our worth.
Not only do we have to prove that we are worthy of moving on to the next lesson, next grade, or graduation, but we also have to prove that we are worthy of being recognized, recognized, appreciated, and even loved.
If we do what we say and are in line with the team's motivation, we are rewarded for meeting our emotional needs.
But if we think for ourselves and we don't adapt to the environment, there is no reward.
Let us feel the resentment, disappointment, and repressed love of those in power, punished emotionally, in other words, we are considered unworthy.
Society tells us that values are directly related to our future and the continued success of the world.
Therefore, having a purposeful, rich, attractive life partner, just as being poor, without a partner, or having no direction in life is directly related to worthlessness.
When we go out into the world on our own, we are deeply aware that others must find us worthy of our success.
In fact, we believe that our survival depends on the world agreeing that we are worth it, and of course, infinite conditions determine the value of the environment, culture, religion and society.
We can easily satisfy the conditions of one group and ignore the conditions of the other.
Thus it is worth it for some and not for others.
We even artificially change ourselves in different situations and relationships to increase our value quotient.
Of course, the price of pretending to be someone else to please someone always involves a certain level of shame and concealment.
If we are always uncomfortable with our expectations, whether it is a partner, a parent or a boss, we change our behavior accordingly so that it is considered worthwhile to gain recognition and we must always be vigilant.
So, even if we are real in certain situations, we must be ready to change or hide our true selves if the situation suddenly changes.
For example, if we meet a colleague on vacation, or if a parent arrives unexpectedly.
In this way, we never relax, we must always be in a state of anxiety to be able to switch identities in this environment – it is only worth it in this moment.
If we don't fit what others imagine of us, we may lose our jobs, be abandoned, or experience ridicule.
In this way, spontaneity or truthfulness manifested in all spheres of life can be the most dangerous thing that one can do – in the eyes of value.
For example, even if you find value in your career or relationships, you'll always need an outside to make you feel worthy.
This creates a great dependence on things that you can't control, so you live in fear, all kinds of facing other people's pressures or external situations.
The real problem is that you can't prove your worth, because you can't prove your worth.
Your worth is unconditional
Because value is at the heart of every human being, it cannot be proven or unproven, and there is nothing you can do more or less about your intrinsic value.
If you sit on a rock for the rest of your life, then you are worth no less than that. Your worth is unconditional, **, which is something they don't tell you in school.
The act of simply trying to prove your worth puts you in a worthless space, because in order to prove your worth, you must first believe that you are not worthy.
It's like chasing a carrot on a stick and never getting it, and in order to prove your worth, you're really afraid of worthlessness, which puts you in a value chase.
It is worth mentioning the core questions of life's long list of challenges.
Feeling unworthy (worthless) leads to co-dependence, addiction, depression, illness, victimization, abuse, lack of self-confidence, poor communication.
Obesity, eating disorders, indecision, panic, power problems, abandonment problems, trust problems, relationship problems and so many examples go on.
Almost every conceivable problem is entangled with the question of value.
Healing a worthy problem can be the ultimate solution to many of life's problems, including health and prosperity issues.
There is a direct relationship between knowing your worth and how prosperous you are, and people who don't know their worth often feel deprived because they don't deserve to prosper.
And those who know their worth are able to enjoy it infinitely because they feel that they are worthwhile. At the heart of all the problems of enrichment is the question of values.
Being valuable is also directly linked to self-love
It may be true that we are told to love ourselves and that self-love is the answer to most of life's questions, but you can't love yourself if you don't deserve it.
If you don't feel worthy, you can't get others to love you, which is the number one cause of relationship problems.
What if you could do a quantum jump and only need one to ** many problems? This shift is shutting down the "Value or Not Worth Program".
How to close the value program
Subconscious drama is created when a series of strong beliefs are actually supported through emotional experience and formed over time.
If the plot doesn't get stronger and stronger like most people do.
If everyone around you were run by the same program, would it strengthen the morphological domain of the program and even make the program look "normal"?
If everyone is the same, it must be normal.
The way to close the program is to declare your power, no matter how powerful it may seem, nothing is more powerful than you.
You have the power to change anything in your life, and in order to turn off valuable plans, you have to stop acting with a sense of worthlessness, just as your worth is conditional.
You have to stop believing that you need to improve or change in any way in order to gain value.
Expecting others from the material outside world traps you in a vicious circle from which there is no way out.
The outside world can't give you value, in fact, no one can give it to you, and no one can take it away.
This means that you have to stop making your value depend on anything or anyone.
You have to claim your worth once and for all, and have it forever – without conditions.
Although it seems that value is external and seems to be doing something to you, this is not true.
Value is ingrained in the inside, it is driven by your inner critic, and in order to close the program, you have to get rid of negative self-talk and self-judgment.
When you stop doing things to yourself, the world will stop doing things to you. The outer world can only reflect the inner world.
To escape the ordeal of wealth, you must release your fear of failure and embrace the courage to be different.
Don't judge yourself or wait for the world to judge you, and most importantly, love yourself and cherish yourself.
It doesn't matter if you're wrong or right, whether you're a failure or a success, whether you're a good fit or not, or you're a completely eccentric person, you are who you are now.
It takes courage to discover your unconditional worth, and you are the only one who can do it.
If you're having a hard time claiming your worth, at least don't pursue it anymore.
In fact, instead of spending the rest of your life trying to prove your worth, what if it's not worth it? What if you succumb to unworthiness?
It may sound like a stupid thing to do, but if you have the courage to give in by giving up on the search for value, then the conditional illusion will be shattered and you will find that you are already valuable.
Have your inner core values.
When you stop pursuing your own path or people, you become empowered (power dominant).
This means that no one has your power, and your options are exponentially opener.
If you no longer need someone to come to you, then you can do whatever you want without worrying about what the world is saying.
If you no longer need a degree, certificate, or belongings to make you feel worthy, you can be freed from a prison of self-incarceration.
You can still have these things, but your value no longer depends on any of them.
Your value doesn't depend on anything – that's the point!
Discovering that you have intrinsic value allows you to ** all the problems that manifest because you believe you are unworthy.
The result is the release of worries, fears, stress, and even depression, allowing you to become open, authentic, confident, and happy.
When you find yourself unconditionally worthy, your prosperity will increase and all your relationships will improve because you will have more love for yourself and others.
Remembering that you are unconditional is a shortcut to spiritual growth, because you no longer gain value through the material world.
Unconditional worth can also allow you to truly reach out to people while activating your intuition and giving you access to powerful inner guidance.
Having your own worth can be the magic key to a successful life, and when you no longer see your worth to the outside world, you are free to create your desires.
Freedom to love whomever you want, freedom to follow the course of your heart, freedom to express yourself, freedom to be you.
Whoever it is, you may be surprised who it is, and knowing your worth allows you to use your power and consciously create your dream life.
The thing is, there's nothing to do, that's the point, your value is intrinsic.
Now, you can let go of all your preconceptions about value, take a deep breath, and remind yourself that you are worth it.
As you say, I deserve it again and again, and a deep part of you begins to wake up, free from bondage, and free you from feelings.
You have all the power to free yourself by owning and claiming your worth.
Your contribution to the world
Your mission in life is to find your own value so that you can go out into the world and show others how to find yourself for yourself, just by shaping the unconditional value of life.
If you're raising children, be aware of not hanging them on valuable projects and teach them unconditional pairing – encourage them to think for themselves.
You can also help you free your life from the life value program by loving them and accepting them completely.
This means that when you get rid of negative self-talk, self-judgment, and self-criticism, you must also stop judging others, no matter what they do.
Treat all people as 100 values and create space for others to get rid of limitations. It's the greatest gift you can give anyone.
When you release the quest for conditional value and embrace unconditional value, you will naturally realign with a higher value.
A knowledge that grows within you shows that we are all perfect in nature and worthy beings.
When you find yourself unconditionally worthy of coexisting with your life with other people, you will know that you can live freely by changing before your eyes.
This is how we transform humanity into a new dream of peace and harmony on earth.