The deep courtyard house, a seemingly warm and harmonious home, actually hides the traps of three types of people, and if you are not careful, you may fall into it and cannot extricate yourself. This is not fiction, but a profound lesson learned from the classic TV series "Love in the Courtyard".
First of all, we want to beware of those who love moral orgasms. There are often such people in the courtyard, who always put on a sanctimonious posture and oppress others with moral standards. They are pretentious, believing that their words are the supreme truth, and imposing reason on others as if they were shackling their minds.
For example, Qin Huairu's ex-mother-in-law, Jia Zhang, always considers herself an elder, but in fact, she is open-minded and lustful for money. She uses moral kidnapping to frequently stage farces in the courtyard, dressing herself up as a pitiful party to achieve selfish goals.
Second, stay away from those who harm others and not yourself. In reality, we often see this kind of person, who seems to have nothing to ask for on the surface, but secretly likes to see others unlucky. Xu Damao is such a typical villain, in order to protect his face, he did not hesitate to obstruct the marriage of Silly Zhu and Qin Huairu, causing the two to miss eight years of happiness. This kind of mentality is like a poison, hidden in all corners of life, and the slightest carelessness may be affected by it.
Finally, be wary of those who take advantage of compassion to gain an inch. Qin Huairu is such a person who is weak on the surface, but in fact he is scheming. She uses Silly Zhu's compassion to gradually erode everything about him, and finally puts him to death. Although her methods seem gentle, they are actually insidious and cunning, which is difficult to guard.
In real life, we may meet similar people, but the key is how to deal with them. In the face of moral climaxes, we must maintain independent thinking and not be swayed by their words; For those who harm others and ourselves, we must remain vigilant and not be easily deceived; For those who take advantage of compassion, it is even more important to keep a clear head and not be deceived by their appearance. Only in this way can we go further and steadily on the road of life.
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