Every time I go home, my sister-in-law doesn't seem to be happy, I talk to my parents and brother, my niece plays with my son, and she always sleeps alone in the room ......
It could be that the sister-in-law has her own worries and stresses, and she needs to be alone to adjust her emotions. Try talking to her about any recent problems and see if you can help.
At the same time, respect her personal space and don't disturb her too much. If the situation persists, it may be necessary for the family to sit down together and talk openly about their feelings and thoughts and find ways to solve the problem.
I also wanted to sit in the living room and chat, but they didn't speak, and it was very lively as soon as I left.
Mother-in-law and sister-in-law complained about my sister's mother-in-law in dialect, and the content of the complaint was only a lot more ......than my mother-in-law herselfI understand and don't participate, do I have to say: What a coincidence, my mother-in-law is like this.
In fact, everyone admits it, no one wants their daughter-in-law to go to her in-laws' house. It's good for your son and grandchildren to go back, and the family is the family. As for why the daughter-in-law went back, she either lacked work or was afraid that outsiders would chew her tongue.
My sister-in-law complained to my mother-in-law about her mother-in-law, saying that my mother-in-law was partial to my brother-in-law and that my mother-in-law couldn't cook, and the mother and daughter cursed so badly. I'd love to say what's the difference between my mother-in-law and my sister-in-law's mother-in-law.
My in-laws are good, and my father-in-law will send me money to spend, hahaha! Although the language barrier is different, they will try to communicate with me in Mandarin, watching them chat, I will also ask from time to time, who said what? When relatives come, they will also take the initiative to ask what to call in the local dialect, and learn to scream to make people happy. You must know that I am also an introverted and withdrawn person, but I should be interested in knowledge, because I don't know anything, I don't have to cook or work when I go back to my in-law's house, my limbs are not diligent, and my mouth has to come in handy, so I can't learn a sweet mouth. In my mother's house, my mother worries about my stinky face every day, what will happen in the future? But my in-laws' relatives and friends came to the door, and before leaving, they would say that I had a good smile and looked pleasing to the eye.
I feel that it is better to keep a little distance from my in-laws! After all, there is no blood relationship!
When I go back to my mother-in-law's house, I am alone in my room. They chatted about the topics of the West and the East. They don't know the protagonists they talk about, and they don't want to listen to them, so it's better to play on their phones and watch TV series.
It was really inconvenient for me to chat with them, and it affected my mother-in-law to speak ill of me.
It would be nice to have a bedroom. The worst thing is that I don't know why the TV was moved to the bedroom of the two, and the bedroom is full of people. Prepare to take a shower at night** Serve people and don't leave. The embarrassment is dead. I can't stay at all when I go back once a year.
I also want to fit in, but my husband said "I don't dare to talk nonsense at home" My son talks leisurely at home, so why do my daughter-in-law say that when I go home, I will automatically turn on the dumb mode.
I was like this in my in-laws' house, first, I couldn't understand their dialect, and they didn't care if I could understand it. Second, they never discuss or ask for my opinion on matters at home, and they are afraid that I will know about some things, so I don't bother to pay attention to them.