Kindness is a virtue that represents generosity and generosity, but excessive kindness is an indulgence that can be easily abused at will. Unsuspecting kindness is often deceived, calculated, and at worst abused. Only thorny kindness can win the awe of others.
In the face of this world, we don't have to be apathetic and lonely, and we don't have to be too enthusiastic. Show your warm, soft side at the right time, like a spring bloom, and show your strong side that can withstand the cold and heat at the right time. Our goal is to live in harmony with the world.
We can be kind, but not weak. I will not be bullied, nor will I bully others. Oni Guji said: "A good person must be an unfortunate person." Strong people live in a world where there is softness and rigidity, and rigidity but not hegemony. This quote tells us that it's not good to be too soft. Thing. If you are stupid, unprincipled, and overly kind, you will only arouse the resentment of the wicked. Treat villains, do not have good thoughts, but be wise and decisive; Treat gentlemen with tolerance, honesty, and generosity.
Excessive kindness can lead to bullying, and excessive weakness can lead to manipulation. Only if you are weak and strong, strong but not arrogant, can the world fear you. Good people are bullied, and good horses are ridden. In the face of the harsh reality, we need to hone our ability to protect ourselves.
Kind, but intolerant to all and generous to all. Kindness requires a bottom line, and tolerance requires tolerance. Kindness has edges and corners, and tolerance also needs edges, but not to hurt others, but to protect oneself.
Some people like to test your weaknesses. If you are accommodating and unprincipled, they will maliciously bully you. But if you can tell right from wrong and stick to your principles, they will respect you.
A strong person lives, but when he should be as gentle as water, he is as gentle as spring, and when he should be firm as winter, he becomes as severe as ice. It's a balance between hardness and softness.
There are those who bully the weak and fear the strong. This is their inferior nature. They bully and insult the weak unreasonably, and the more they feel that the weak, the more arrogant they become. To the strong, they will bow down, but the more they feel your determination, the more humble they become.
Sheep can only be eaten by hungry wolves, and even the most ferocious hungry wolves can be eaten by tigers. If you are weak, you will fail; There is no sympathy for the weak in this world, only the strong are invincible.
When we are human beings, kindness is a kind of heart, and firmness is a kind of wisdom. We must live in peace with the world, but we also need to dare to protect ourselves.
Find the balance between strength and softness. By doing so, you will not only be kind and tolerant, but you will also protect yourself from harm. To deal with the world, we need to learn to respond flexibly to different situations, as warm and tolerant as spring, and as firm and decisive as winter.
When it comes to dealing with others, you need to choose wisely how you deal with different types of people. For kind people, we should be tolerant, understanding, and supportive. We should thank them for their kindness and encourage them to continue. We cannot deal with ill-intentioned people with kindness, but we must always be vigilant and respond with wisdom and determination. Only in this way can we protect ourselves from their exploitation and harm.
But it can't be too strong, and it can't be too cold. In the face of challenges and difficulties, we need to keep the soft side and resolve conflicts with warmth and understanding. We should learn to communicate and cooperate well with others, rather than closing ourselves in walls of indifference and isolation. It is only through interaction and understanding with others that we can achieve true harmony with the world.
Human wisdom also lies in sticking to one's own principles and positions. You don't have to give up your values and beliefs in order to please others. In the face of unjust and immoral behavior, we should stand up bravely and resolutely defend justice and fairness. But you must also learn to express your position in a gentle manner and avoid conflicts and arguments with others. We cannot solve problems with emotion and violence, but need to use reason and wisdom to discuss and debate.
So being a smart person means finding a balance between kindness and harshness. We must continue to be kind and tolerant, but we must also learn how to protect ourselves from harm. We must live in harmony with the world while also upholding our own principles and positions. Only by achieving the balance of rigidity and softness can we truly achieve peaceful coexistence with the world and create a better future.