Because she is unwilling to go back to her husband's hometown for the New Year, she may be the only one who suffers from domestic violence.
To be honest, there is a reason why I don't want to go back to Li Chengzhi's hometown:
First of all, she was pregnant, and the fetus was not stable enough to travel long distances. The second is that she has a disabled leg, Li Chengzhi's hometown is in the mountains, and she can't walk the mountain road for so long.
In order to comfort Li Chengzhi, Qiao Haiyun bought a lot of expensive gifts, but Li Chengzhi not only didn't feel sorry for his wife's pregnancy, he didn't appreciate his mother-in-law's efforts, but also felt that the Meng family looked down on him.
So, he dropped the gift and shot at the pregnant Meng Mingwei. And all this comes down to Li Chengzhi's inferiority, but it was Meng Mingwei who was hurt.
It is not difficult to find out through the ** TV series that Meng Mingwei has always cared about one thing: why are her parents so good-looking and so good, her sisters are like her parents, only she is ugly and stupid?
Actually, the reason is very simple, because Ming Wei is not biological, she is a burden abandoned by her biological mother, and it was Qiao Haiyun who adopted her and treated her as her own daughter. Mingwei is disabled, his appearance is not outstanding, and he can't find his in-laws when he is almost 30 years old.
Due to the psychology of comparison, she expects her daughter to fight for her, to be more excellent, and to impose her wishes on her.
She almost morbidly forced Li Yijin, controlled her life, and forced Li Yijin to get married early. So why did she let Li Yijin get married early?
Because she deeply experienced the pain of "not being able to get married", she was unwilling to let Li Yijin go through the same torture.
Meng Mingwei's experience really makes people feel pity, but they can't ignore her evil to Li Yijin. If you are not happy, you have to press your misfortune on your daughter's head, and find a sense of existence by belittling and scolding your daughter, which is really hateful.
In fact, in a way, she is as weak and despicable as Li Chengzhi, because they are weak and resentful of others for no reason, pointing their sinful fingers at the innocent and weaker.
Qiao Haiyun planned deeply for Meng Mingwei, choosing a husband for her and marrying a house to support her daughter. And her actions, Meng Mingwei did not appreciate it.
Li Chengzhi hated Qiao Haiyun for relying on money and power to force himself to marry the old and ugly Meng Mingwei, he coveted the benefits of the Meng family, and did not dare to resist, so he gave all his hatred to Meng Mingwei, tortured Meng Mingwei with indifference, and spent 30 years without sex and love.
Meng Mingwei also hated Qiao Haiyun, hated her for marrying a suite, making others feel that they had no one to want, she didn't dare to do evil to her mother, nor did she dare to do evil to Li Chengzhi, so she shifted the blame to her daughter Li Yijin.
The most impressive point in the TV series "Fireworks People" is that the character of Meng Mingwei does not appear weak and helpless as in the original book, but shows her bold deeds of fighting hooligans.
In reality, Meng Mingwei actually had three trump cards in life from the beginning. Abandoned by her biological mother, she was adopted by Qiao Haiyun, and from a poor debt-collecting family, she became the eldest lady of the Meng family.
Meng Mingwei's maiden family gave her strong support. In real life, many women suffer from domestic violence, but few can get the confidence and courage to support their daughters.
Faced with Meng Mingwei's domestic violence, Qiao Haiyun did not hesitate to kidnap Li Chengzhi, and even starved him for two days, almost frantically warning Li Chengzhi: If you dare to hurt my daughter, I will dare to take your life.
Qiao Haiyun wrote in her name for the house where Meng Mingwei was married. This house has nothing to do with Li Chengzhi. Once it comes to property disputes, this house will completely belong to Meng Mingwei.
Meng Mingwei got this kind of ownership as soon as she got married, and even after the divorce, Qiao Haiyun bought a bigger property for her. In addition, she has a job and enjoys a stable pension even after retirement. All this constitutes the support of Meng Mingwei's strong life.
She has always relied on her mother, Qiao Haiyun, and has never experienced the hardships of life, nor has she ever had a conflict with her mother-in-law.
Marriage is never an antidote, women should not be full of beautiful imagination about marriage at the beginning, contradictions, friction, quarrels, and run-in are almost the only way for every couple, and they can't feel that divorce is the only way out because they encounter problems.
When watching the TV series, you will notice a small detail: as long as Meng Mingwei appears, he must be busy. Not only did she have to take care of her two younger sisters, but she also took on almost all the responsibilities of taking care of her mother, and she also did her best to raise Li Yijin. Although she is old, someone takes care of her. She is a first-class cook and hardworking.
Whoever is old and has no problems, bad health, and not good looks is actually not a big deal. But she chose to jump off the building.
In the original book, Qiao Haiyun realized that he was old and worried that once he died, his eldest daughter would fall into Li Chengzhi's misery. Therefore, she first proposed to divorce Meng Mingwei.
Meng Mingwei went back to tell Li Chengzhi about the decision to divorce, but Li Chengzhi once again ignored it. She felt that her daughter was not close to her, and the divorce could not be separated, so she was suffocated for various reasons, and finally chose to jump off the building, longing to be able to get rid of all the pain.
At the moment when Meng Mingwei was thinking about suicide, she gave Qiao Haiyun a **, which aroused Qiao Haiyun's vigilance, and hurriedly went upstairs to save her daughter, but fell down on the way, causing Meng Mingwei's attempt to jump off the building.
Qiao Haiyun once again exerted his skills, forced Li Chengzhi to divorce, and even kicked him out of the house.
Meng Mingwei has relied almost entirely on the protective circle built for her by her mother Qiao Haiyun in this life. In marriage, the mother takes care of everything; When she suffered domestic violence, her mother stood up for her; When the divorce occurred, her mother planned for her. Although she is over 60 years old, she is still inseparable from the support of her own mother.
There are so many things in life that we can't change, and life often doesn't go our way. Marriage is like a poker game, some people don't get the cards they get, but they never give up easily and keep trying to win. On the other hand, there are people who have strong hands but may end up losing miserably for a variety of reasons.