Xu Fan and Ma Sichun starred in "Fireworks Family" is on the air, the play takes the three generations of women of the Meng family as the starting point, focuses on social hotspots such as family, marriage, and growth, and tells the heartwarming story of mother and daughter between each other.
Meng Yunqing, the second eldest child of the Meng family in a play, couldn't listen to the opposition of his mother Qiao Haiyun, and married the handsome and dashing Tao Dalei who had nothing to do, abandoned his career and fell into the quagmire of a housewife.
Fortunately, her mother Qiao Haiyun brought her out and helped her raise her children, so that she could concentrate on her career, so that she had Meng Yunqing, a company executive with unlimited scenery in the future. Different from Meng Mingwei, the boss of the Meng family, who controlled his daughter Li Yijin's suffocation, Meng Yunqing's daughter Tao Shuna belonged to free-range education, and raised Tao Shuna into a bright, cheerful, honest and lively sunny girl.
Second, from Meng Yunqing's handling of Tao Shuna's early love, we know how important she is to the cultivation of Tao Shuna's character. Meng Yunqing received Mr. Wang's **, and hurried to the school after her hair was half done, which shows her intentions for her daughter Tao Shuna.
First of all, fully trust your daughter. After arriving at the school, the head teacher, Mr. Wang, took out a note and said to her: "Your Tao Shuna, a good student is still in love, you still don't care?" "What does this note prove?" She scolded Teacher Wang first, did not ask Tao Shuna, and asked her daughter if it was true.
Tao Shuna said that she didn't fall in love, and she could also pass notes between classmates, so she chose to believe her daughter, and she was light and light. "Our Nana said that she didn't fall in love, that is, she didn't talk about it, what a big deal! "Trust is the foundation of a harmonious mother-daughter relationship.
Secondly, firmly support the girl. Teacher Wang also wanted to buckle Tao Shuna's hat with a bad boy, criticizing her for her good grades, good looks, liking boys, and bringing bad male classmates. Meng Yunqing immediately replied: "Whether a girl looks good or not, whether a boy likes it or not, has nothing to do with whether it will bring anyone bad." That's all the boys' problem, how can we blame it."
My daughter is beautiful, has good grades, and likes boys, what's wrong with that. Your teacher can't look at it with colored glasses, and you can't generalize with partiality. "My girl, what she wants to do, who she wants to like, that's what she decides in the future, and I will never change her because of anyone's prejudices. As soon as Meng Yunqing's words came out, she stood on the same front with her daughter, can she not let her worship and obey?
Finally, the topic is touted as a girl. Of course, the main business of students is studying, not to mention Tao Shuna, who has good grades. "I'm sure she's going to put her studies first, right? Meng Yunqing's words brought Tao Shuna back to studying, guiding her daughter to focus on her studies, but her daughter had to nod her head and say yes.
Meng Yunqing only used four sentences to break Mr. Wang's early love and shorten the distance with his daughter Tao Shuna, which is a hundred times stronger than the boss Meng Mingwei beating and scolding Li Yijin.
When the third returned to the barbershop, Tao Shuna asked Meng Yunqing: "Mom, do you really believe that I am not in love?" "You said no, I believe in you, of course I do! Meng Yunqing's position is firm, that is, she believes in her daughter. "Me and that boy are really pure buddies. This is Tao Shuna's reply to her mother Meng Yunqing's trust in her.
I'll just say, our Nana can't let a boy into the eyes of the law so easily. "Meng Yunqing is touting and praising it, can ordinary boys still make Tao Shuna look at it in the future? No wonder Tao Shuna's attitude towards love is "evenly matched is the most beautiful appearance of love." "No wonder Tao Shuna was admitted to the doctorate, and the straight ball chased Zhang Xiaoyan, the cold-faced academic bully.
Fourth, although Meng Yunqing and Tao Dalei's marriage was about to divorce in the year of Tao Shuna's college entrance examination, they lived for a few years after bumping and bumping. However, Meng Yunqing's character cultivation of Tao Shuna really gave strong support and became the most solid backing!
Adolescent children, instead of wearing out their mouths, pulling each other's skins, and forcibly intervening, it is better to communicate patiently and tolerate trust in a way that they can accept. Look at the way Meng Mingwei, the eldest of the Meng family, and Meng Yunqing, the second eldest of the Meng family, cultivate their daughters, and look at the very different personalities of Li Yijin and Tao Shuna's cousins, it can be seen how important a mother is to the growth of her children.
As parents, they should learn Meng Yunqing's attitude and way of dealing with chasing wind and shadows and catching young love, which can be called a textbook classic operation!