Ye Shengtao, a famous educator, said: "Education is to cultivate habits." The power of habit is enormous.
William James, an American psychologist, said, "Sow an action, reap a habit; Sow a habit, reap a character; Sow a character, reap a destiny. ”
That is to say, habits can determine the fate of a person's life.
Every parent hopes that their children are excellent, and the children who earn a mountain of gold and silver are very radiant on the surface, but only the children who really have the inner can go further. Therefore, instead of struggling for children to win gold and silver, it is better to cultivate these habits for children, both inside and outside, good habits are the key to the success of children, which will imperceptibly accompany children and benefit them for life, so that children can become a truly excellent person.
1.Develop good homework habits
Many parents worry about their children's homeworkShould parents accompany their children to do their homework? In the first to third grades, parents still have to work hardIt is best to accompany your child with homework and develop good habits。At this stage, children's self-control is still relatively poor, and parents need to supervise and remind them.
Accompanying your child to do their homework is not about nagging on the sidelines, but about reminding them of the steps to write their homework. For example, when writing homework, tidy up the desk first, sharpen the pencil, and do not have bells and whistles stationery on the desk, so as not to attract and distract the child, play this and that, and waste time.
In grades 1 to 3 of primary school, parents focus on checking their children's handwriting, reading habits, calculation ability, attitude towards completing homework, and ability to absorb and apply knowledge. If there is something lacking in this area, you need to help your child catch up.
Several of my family's top students,Most of them are strictly managed before the third grade of primary school, and the tactics of keeping a close eye are implementedAt this time, the child has developed good study habits, and there is no need for parents to supervise and remind them, and they are very conscious, and they continue until the upper grades.
2.Resilience to frustration
You need to build your child's resilience.
Because compared with primary school, the learning pressure in junior high school and high school is very high, and the pressure to go into society in the future is even greater, so it is necessary to cultivate children's ability to resist frustration.
3.Catch your child's time management skillsChildren have a poor sense of time, and they are slow to write homework and do things, which makes parents anxious. Some children may not learn how to manage and use their time efficiently throughout their lives.
When the child grows up and works, if he does not know how to manage time, he will also encounter many difficulties in his work and is prone to mistakes.
In the whole six years of primary school, how much effort we adults put in, how much children can gain.
Accompany children through the six years of primary school" tells vivid stories in concise words in terms of the psychological development characteristics of primary school students, the characteristics of the cultural knowledge they have learned, the formation of learning habits, and the cultivation of learning ability. I believe that after reading "Accompanying Children Through Six Years of Primary School", parents and children can easily get rid of the confusion of primary school and truly experience the joy of growing up.
In addition, there is also "Accompanying Children Through the Three Years of Junior High School", which focuses more on how to understand adolescent children and communicate effectively with them. As a parent who came over, the author had times when he was handy and at a loss in the process of accompanying his children, so the examples that happened in the author's house in the book have both success and failure. From the perspective of an educator, the author also wrote about his own awareness and reflection in the book, hoping to be helpful to everyone.
Child, you need to understand that all the effort you put into your studies is ultimately for yourself. Your hard work today will make you brilliant tomorrow, make you a useful talent, and make your life more fulfilling and exciting.
Reading can make you smart, humble, and learned, and ultimately make you an elegant and brilliant person. Without the accumulation of reading and studying, it is impossible to have the glory of tomorrow. When you create a better future with your own efforts, when you feel the value of your life, when you realize your life dreams, you will be able to understand the true purpose of studying, and you will be grateful for your sweat and efforts!
I have read these books many times, and each time there is a new inspiration, I can't help but sigh at the importance and hardship of education, when you finish reading, you will find that those confusion, confusion, and suffering in your education, especially in getting along with children, have been given solutions, and some even have steps.
And ** is not expensive, the money of a meal, your life may be changed.
It would be better if you could read with other parents, receive the influence of wisdom together, and give it away, and others will praise you for your taste.
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