New Year's Memory
1,300 kilometers, the child's father drove alone, from 9:30 in the morning to the early hours of the morning, and finally knocked on the door of the house.
Back to the countryside for the Chinese New Year, the countryside has a New Year's flavor. Due to the delay of the epidemic, I haven't been back for the New Year for several years. I usually go to summer vacation or eleven, but I always lack a taste. Maybe it's a memory, maybe it's hilarious.
It's just that this distance is enough to be regarded as a thousand miles. Catching up with the snow a few days ago, the child's father paid attention to the highway conditions every day, refueled when he encountered a gas station, and bought more than 500 snacks.
This is a lesson, once in order to wait for the refuel, shivering in the car all night, waiting until 8 o'clock in the morning to refuel. Sure enough, the further back you go, the less the gas station is open.
Fortunately, the road went smoothly and everything went smoothly. The father's work was also done, almost to the end in one go. It can be seen how enthusiastic he is on the way home.
He said that even if coming home in the middle of the night would disturb his parents' rest, his parents were more happy that we arrived home safely. Knowing that we were coming back, the room had been cleaned out early, the quilt was dried and dried, and the hot kang was hot and hot.
Waiting for the Chinese New Year, and the Chinese New Year, is my time to "recuperate". The content of my life is to read books, chase dramas, and write essays, Ge You is tired and lie down, and I am hungry and reach out to the party.
I read that many daughters-in-law on the Internet wrote that they were busy in the kitchen of their in-laws' house, and the workload was huge, which caused a lot of complaints and even wanted to divorce.
I'm lucky for that. I still have to make a show and pretend at my mother's house, and I let go of my laziness at my mother-in-law's house.
I didn't come all the way here to do housework, I didn't have to do housework.
Occupy a "foreign daughter-in-law", I can't do local work, and I don't want to grow up to do this job at all.
I think the attitude of men is very important when it comes to work. If a man thinks that you want to work in your mother-in-law's house to show your dedication, to measure a good daughter-in-law, then if you don't do it, you will have to quarrel.
If a man doesn't ask you to do it, then the in-laws won't ask you to do it. And my share of the job, the child's father will be left to work.
A daughter-in-law who doesn't work at her in-law's house during the Chinese New Year is not a good daughter-in-law. Fortunately, no one has the same knowledge as me. And everyone in the family is diligent, and the fruits of my labor are not missing.
Go to your mother's house or go to your mother-in-law's house for the New Year, according to the original agreement, you will go back to one place every year for the New Year. However, due to the young children and the epidemic, this agreement has also been implemented intermittently.
Distance produces beauty. I think the same applies to mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
There are many ways to show filial piety and recognition, and it doesn't have to be work. If you really don't do it yourself, why force it if it's not your strength.
To work in your in-law's house, you must be willing. That's how fun it is.
Otherwise, you will be full of complaints, unhappy, and the more you think about it, the more aggrieved you will work, and you will only lose your enthusiasm for the New Year.
If a man wants "face" and "authority", he doesn't have to oppress his daughter-in-law to be a scapegoat, and he has enough food and clothing by himself. Sometimes women don't want to be lazy or idle, but because they want respect. Respect your own free will, not be morally kidnapped. Who hasn't been both inside and outside the Lord these days?