When we talk about positions and roles in the family, we are referring to the specific position and role that each family member occupies in the family system. These positions and roles can have a profound impact on the behavior, emotion, and physical health of family members. In the theory of the arrangement of the family system, each family member has its own unique position and responsibilities. When a member tries to evade their own responsibilities or roles, or takes on the responsibilities of other members excessively, the balance of the family system can be upset, leading to a range of problems, including physical symptoms. In the case of eye problems, for example, from the perspective of location and role in the family, it may be related to the following aspects:
1.Over-responsibility: Some family members may over-assume the responsibilities of other members, especially the expectations and pressures that parents place on their children. For example, a child may feel that he or she must always be good in order to please his parents because he or she has high expectations. This long-term psychological stress can lead to physical tension reactions, including eye strain, blurred vision, and other problems.
2.Confusion or absence of roles: When a family member's role is confused or missing, it can also lead to eye problems. For example, in a family, if parents are constantly arguing or divorced, the child may feel the need to play the role of mediator or caregiver in order to maintain the stability of the family. This role confusion may make the child feel helpless and anxious, which can manifest problems with the eyes, such as frequent blinking, wandering gaze, etc.
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In one family, there was a little girl who often complained of eye pain, but after several medical tests, no obvious cause could be found. During the consultation process of the family system arrangement, it was discovered that this little girl plays a very important role in the family: she is the "peacemaker" of the family. Whenever her parents have an argument, she always tries to ease the tension in various ways, including using her eyes to signal her parents to calm down. However, this long-term role-playing put her under tremendous psychological stress, resulting in painful symptoms in her eyes.
Of course, for many people, when they have not yet come into contact with the concept of family system arrangement, they are more likely to choose a direct and practical solution to their eye problems - using pure Chinese medicine and safe eye ointment to treat eye diseases. As a traditional method, traditional Chinese medicine eye ointment plays an important role in the treatment of eye diseases. Compared to Western medicines, TCM eye ointments are usually milder,** smaller, and are suitable for long-term use. Moreover, TCM eye ointment can often target the root cause of eye diseases, rather than just relieving symptoms.
Safety is a very important consideration when choosing a TCM eye ointment. Make sure that the eye paste you choose is certified by an authoritative organization and produced by a regular manufacturer, so as to minimize the risk of using substandard products. In addition, the use of TCM eye ointment also needs to follow certain principles and methods.
It is advisable to consult a doctor or TCM practitioner before using TCM to understand the type and extent of your eye disease and whether it is suitable to use TCM eye ointment. In the process of use, it is necessary to strictly follow the usage and dosage on the instructions to avoid adverse reactions caused by excessive use or improper use. In short, for eye problems, it is a good choice to choose a pure Chinese medicine and safe eye ointment to recuperate. But at the same time, we should also maintain an open attitude to the concept of family system arrangement, and pay attention to and solve our own physical and mental health problems from multiple perspectives.