Everyone has a role that cannot be replaced - mother. For a child without a mother, life is like a pole grass without roots, which can be destroyed by wind and frost at any time. Mother's love is the most important and warmest force in a child's growth, and without mother's love, the integrity of a family will be shattered.
Just like when I was three and a half years old without my mother, my mother died of postpartum depression shortly after giving birth to my sister. She left behind me, my one-and-a-half-year-old brother and my three-month-old sister, and we were taken care of by my grandmother. Since then, fear has been an eternal companion of our childhood. At the age of four, my sister was forced to take on the responsibility of washing dishes, and if she didn't do it, she would be beaten and abused. I was also just a child, and I couldn't help my younger siblings solve their problems, so I could only comfort my stepmother not to cry when they walked away, because crying would only lead to harsher punishment. This fear still haunts me to this day, and every time I hear a child's cry, the deep fear in my heart is revived.
My best friend is an only child, and her father is the leader of a unit, and she grew up under the pampering of her parents and became the envy of the class. However, shortly before graduation, her mother died of a cerebral hemorrhage. The father did not wait long to marry another stepmother with a daughter, and she was disliked and ignored by her father and aunts at the wedding. The father and stepmother lived a happy life as a family of three, while she guarded the old house alone. She didn't have a living allowance to call her father, and she was rejected every time. This feeling of being left out after losing her mother made her deeply appreciate the warmth and indifference of family affection.
My family situation is the opposite of hers. When I was 27 years old, I lost my dad and he found an aunt to be his stepmother. I can only stay for a few days at a time, but I am often disliked. Even if it's just a meal, if the child spills the porridge, the father will be angry. So I could only call ** and ask my husband to pick us up. My sister's children were raised by my mother, and I quit my job to take care of the children. My mother is gone, and for me, I don't even have half a father. I lost my mother when I was in high school, and since then, my interest in learning has also disappeared, and I have not been admitted to university, and the trajectory of my life has also changed. I went through things that ordinary people didn't experience, and I suffered in silence because I didn't have anyone to rely on. I often fantasize that if I had my mom behind me, my life would be completely different. But this is just a fantasy, I can only face everything strong and become a child to rely on.
My husband didn't have a mother when he was a child, but he studied well and was admitted to college. When I was 22 and he was 27, we worked in the same unit and got to know each other. He is honest, thrifty, and polite, but his clothes are always shabby. Later, I married him, and I took care of his clothes so that he no longer wore clothes with holes. He loved me very much and was grateful for the change I made to him. He once told me that without his mother's company, he had always longed for the nourishment of mother's love. Now, he feels that having me is like having a mother, so he cherishes me very much and will take the initiative to help me share it in both life and work. The importance of mother's love is self-evident, it can give children endless strength and love as they grow.
Although I lost the love of my father and mother, I did not indulge in self-pity. I understand that life is something you need to work hard for. I work hard, keep learning, improve my abilities, and create a wonderful family for my children. My husband and I support each other and run the family together. Although there is no nourishment of mother's love, I believe that as long as we love with our hearts and care with our actions, we can also give our children the most sincere mother's love.
In life, there are many children without parents who need attention and help. They have lost the love of their parents and are unable to enjoy love and warmth. We should pay attention to these orphans, give them love and support, and help them get out of the shadow of mother's love and regain the courage and confidence to live. Only when they feel the warmth of love can they be positive and grow up healthily.
Mother's love is the most precious emotion in the world, and it can make people feel warm and dependent. Children who have lost their mother's love often face great psychological pressure, but as long as we care for them with our hearts, give them support and help, they can also find hope and courage in life. Let's work together to bring more love and warmth to these children and give them a hopeful future.