Children's self-discipline is very enviable, but not every child is born with self-discipline. There is a danger in this kind of self-discipline education, because educating children is a painstaking task and parents need to play an important role. This article will focus on the task of educating children's mothers, and put forward three aspects to why education cannot only rely on children's own self-discipline, but needs the guidance and education of parents.
Parental guidance for a child is an endless process, especially in the first three years of a child's primary school. Parents need to understand in advance what good habits their children need to cultivate, and insist on guiding their children to form good study habits. This process is not only a process for children to learn, but also a process for parents to always pay attention to their children's growth.
Parents must not slack off in this process, and even work harder than their children. Parents' guidance and demonstration can make children understand the hard work of using their brains, and the joy of overcoming difficulties and success can also motivate children to move forward. Therefore, parents cannot be lazy and need to put in more effort.
In addition, parents also need to consciously make a long-term plan for learning, and clarify the goals and priorities of learning. For example, by nurturing children's interest and hobbies in English from an early age, they can reach a high level in primary school; Or pay attention to the accumulation of language and cultivate a good sense of language. In addition, children can also be encouraged to develop a hobby and specialty to enrich their lives, so that children can find inspiration from hobbies when facing difficulties.
In addition to giving guidance and education to children, parents also need to be brave enough to criticize and educate. Children play all day and are easily addicted to electronic products, which leads to inability to devote themselves to learning. Therefore, parents need to control the amount of time their children spend playing with electronic devices and try not to let their children become addicted to them.
At the same time, parents also need to establish a detailed study plan and encourage their children to follow the plan. Children may be lazy or unwilling to learn during the learning process, but parents should strictly require their children to follow the plan. Although this may seem stressful, in fact, parents need to put more effort into it, because self-disciplined parents cannot tolerate slacking off and require their children to be strict with themselves.
Years later, children will thank their parents for their correct guidance. The rigorous nurturing of children at an early age fosters self-discipline, and good habits will accompany them for life. Therefore, educating children is a task that requires parents to take pains.
Self-discipline is an excellent quality that every child should have, but not every child is born with the ability to be self-disciplined. Parents should realize that educating their children is a matter of self-discipline and cannot be expected to be self-disciplined. On the contrary, parents should play an important role in guiding and educating their children, so as to avoid neglecting the cultivation of their children for the sake of peace of mind.
In this process, parents need to put in more effort and dare not be lazy. Parents should have foresight and planning, make long-term learning plans, cultivate children's interests and hobbies, and cultivate children's abilities from multiple perspectives. At the same time, parents should also dare to educate and criticize, not only concerned about their children's physical health, but also concerned about their children's thinking ability and learning habits.
Finally, parents should be reminded that educating children requires patience and time, and there are no shortcuts. Only when parents make unremitting efforts to guide their children to form good study habits can they cultivate self-disciplined and self-conscious children. Educating children is a constant battle, but it will be worth it because successful children are a parent's greatest pride.