Be patient, don't help your child do everything].
The more parents do, the more problems their children have
If you always think that the child is too slow, always afraid that the child will be dropped and burned, always feel that the child can't be washed clean, and can't do well, always think that the child wastes time doing things, and you can do more things, so as to habitually let the child get out of the way, let go, and help the child do everything, then you have to be careful, because the children educated in this way not only do not know how to be grateful when they grow up, but also with the arrival of the rebellious period, there are more and more problems, and it is more and more difficult to educate.
Be patient, don't help your child do everything].
Allowing children to participate in housework can make children feel respected and recognized in doing things, and let children get out of the way and let go, which seems to be harmless, but in fact, it is from the subconscious, to the child is not doing a good job, and the information is denied, which subtly hits the formation of children's self-confidence.
If you don't let your child participate in any housework, you will let your child develop the mindset that housework is the responsibility of parents, because if you don't participate, you won't know the hardships, if you don't participate, you won't understand the care of your parents, and if you don't participate, you won't know how to consider each other and the family.
As parents, if we fail to tolerate the child's temperament when the child is young, so that the child can acquire the basic skills of self-reliance and enter the society, can we still hope that the society can tolerate the child and accept the reality that the child will not know anything?
If we don't let our children participate in anything, they won't understand what responsibility is, they won't have the awareness of thinking about others, they won't have certain skills we can learn, but we don't have self-confidence and responsibility, and at some critical points in time, our children will inevitably be troubled and will inevitably lag far behind others.
As parents, in fact, we should not think that the child is slow, do not be afraid of the child being injured, accept the child is not doing well, and even within a controllable range, accept the status quo of the child being slow, dirty, and chaotic, and let the child face the consequences of not doing a good job, and force the child to realize how to do better.
If we want our children to become better and better, we might as well teach them slowly and patiently, and don't deprive children of the opportunity to explore and grow.
Control your hands and let the child do it by himself, no matter how bad it is, at least the child has done it, no matter how little he learns, at least the child has grown, slow, dirty, and chaotic, it is better than helping the child do everything, he is tired and half dead, not to say, but also hits the child's self-confidence, deprives the child of responsibility, and develops the child to not understand the hardships of parents
It's better not to think about others.