At the end of the year, various fashion ceremonies and award ceremonies are coming one after another.
On the red carpet, the actresses competed for beauty and showed their style.
However, attentive netizens found that Angelababy Yang Ying, who had attracted much attention in the past, seemed to have quietly retired in this gorgeous feast.
Her public image began to falter, a turning point that began at the end of September last year. At that time, some netizens ** made a group of her overseas ** well-known ** French song and dance performance "Crazy Horse Show**", which sparked **heated discussions.
Yang Ying was banned, variety shows were cut, endorsements were canceled, and domestic entertainment boycotted in unison, which is embarrassing.
once wanted to make a comeback abroad and appear on the cover of a Singapore magazine, but unfortunately the response was mediocre and uneventful.
Someone sighed: Leaving Huang Xiaoming, Yang Ying is no longer beautiful.
However, looking at the current situation, it is expected, and the abandonment of traffic has long been a precursor.
What you get from others is empty after all
In the ecology of the entertainment industry, the divorce of female artists is often regarded as an opportunity for a new career, but this law has not been confirmed in Yang Ying.
After her marriage to Huang Xiaoming dissolved, her career trajectory did not climb again as expected, but showed a significant downward trend.
Huang Xiaoming, on the other hand, successfully tore off this stereotype after a period of being labeled as "greasy" by the outside world, and with his own efforts and transformation, he once again won the love and support of the majority of fans, and his popularity has risen instead of falling.
* The reason for such a gap in Yang Ying's career trend, looking back on her journey to fame can reveal the answer: her rise to a large extent depends on external help.
In the early years, Yang Ying was just an unknown model, although she went to Japan to develop and accumulated some fame, but at the beginning of her return to China, she did not attract widespread attention from domestic audiences.
The turning point occurred in 2010, the year she met and fell in love with Huang Xiaoming, and with the disclosure of their relationship, Yang Ying's name quickly became the center of heated public discussion.
Through this high-profile relationship, her popularity soared, followed by a significant upgrade of resources, from starring as the heroine of the movie to successfully signing a contract with Huayi Brothers, officially entering the mainland market.
In just a few years, Yang Ying has achieved a gorgeous transformation from a supporting role to a first-line top, and even once appeared on the Forbes rich list, showing an amazing rising speed.
However, when the marriage ended, she seemed to have failed to walk on a solid and lasting path to success on her own, which also made people think more deeply about the value of personal strength and independence behind the halo of stardom.
All the limelight seems to have converged on Yang Ying.
In 2014, she became a new favorite of traffic with "Run, Brother", and there was a flood of fans.
Fame and fortune are reaped, and love also blooms with brilliant sparks.
In 2015, her wedding of the century with Huang Xiaoming was a sensation with a huge investment of 200 million.
After marriage, her career is even more prosperous.
Collaborated with great directors Wong Kar-wai and Tsui Hark, and competed with superstars such as Tony Leung and Takeshi Kaneshiro.
There are many endorsements, frequent visitors to popular magazine covers, and awards and honors follow one after another.
However, behind the popularity, she seems to have misjudged the situation.
At an awards ceremony, Huang Xiaoming silently lifted the skirt for her, and she walked forward with her head held high and never looked back.
At that moment, she seemed to have positioned herself as the heroine.
However, the change of divorce is like a boulder overturning, and the bright aura of the former heroine is eclipsed in an instant.
She used to dominate the ** in variety shows and the resources of new dramas are hot, but now she can only barely maintain the heat of the topic under the spotlight of the red carpet, and even today, she has almost completely faded out of the public's close attention.
The dissolution of marriage is like a watershed, and the favor of capital, the pursuit of traffic, and the vastness of the network seem to close the door to her at the same time.
While this situation is regrettable, it also reveals a cruel and real reality: what is won by relying on others, others can also easily take it back.
Writer Li Shanglong once pointed out sharply: "If you do not have strong strength and foundation, it is often difficult for social relationships to be effective, and only help based on equivalent exchange is stable and reasonable." ”
Yang Ying's career trajectory is like a roller coaster from the peak to the trough, on the surface, this turning point seems to be a divorce incident, but at the end of the day, it is her own factors that have created this situation.
The more accustomed you are to relying on external forces to win easily, the more likely you are to lose the ability to control yourself on the stage of life, and thus fall into a passive situation.
Your strength is your greatest confidence
On the giant ship of the entertainment industry, the replacement of the old and the new is like the ebb and flow of the tide, which is the norm. However, there are some of them who have successfully navigated the storm and stood firm with their tenacity and wisdom.
Zhao Liying is such a vivid example. She started from a trick, no matter how big or small the role is, she always goes all out and performs with love.
In the face of martial arts scenes, she insisted on going into battle in person and refused to be a stand-in, so that her body was often covered with scars, and this dedication and dedication have accumulated a deep foundation for her acting skills.
With her accumulated superb acting skills, Zhao Liying has achieved a gorgeous turn from a supporting role to a leading role. Even after becoming famous, she never slackened at all, always maintained her original intention, and constantly polished herself.
At all stages of her life, she has been precisely positioned and chosen roles that match her temperament: in her youth, she is a sweet girl next door; After years of precipitation, she became a heroine in her own right; Nowadays, he is even more brave to set foot in realistic themes and show the charm of diversified performances.
Although the years no longer give the advantage of age, Zhao Liying's acting path has become broader and broader because of this, and she stands out among the post-85 Hua Dan and is unique. All this is not accidental, but stems from her sober understanding as an actor: she always insists on speaking with her works and speaking with strength.
The entertainment industry is a unique field that not only pays attention to the external image but also delves into the internal strength. This is precisely what Yang Ying urgently needs to improve.
Just as she was bathed in the first period of resources, she resolutely devoted herself to it, but she never showed her persistent pursuit and unremitting efforts for self-improvement.
What's even more regrettable is that instead of cherishing the opportunity, she has repeatedly touched the bottom line that the audience can tolerate with a perfunctory attitude, challenging the public's aesthetic expectations.
Despite her sky-high salary, her performance on the screen is often criticized for being only capable of staring, and her acting skills are mediocre and unable to move people's hearts.
In the face of **'s doubts and criticisms, she responded bluntly: "I am this value." As soon as this remark came out, it triggered the public's in-depth thinking about whether the actor's professionalism and the return matched.
In the interview, she said amazingly: "Whether the camera captures you or not, you have to stick to your position." ”
However, in the filming of "Lonely Fang", as the heroine, she rarely appeared on the set, and could only rely on post-cutout technology.
Although he has participated in many works, there are few commendable masterpieces.
Faced with doubts about her acting skills, Yang Ying didn't seem to realize the seriousness of the problem, and she responded lightly: "Actually, I don't think my acting career is smooth sailing." If it had gone well, I would have been honored by now. ”
Since her debut, Yang Ying has continued to consume her credibility in the entertainment industry.
The ratings of the resident variety shows she participated in continued to decline, and the continuous emergence of new talents made her position increasingly marginalized. has been in the entertainment industry for many years, without the support of excellent works, and no other skills as a guarantee, once external resources are exhausted, she will have nothing to rely on.
In the end, the prosperity was gone, and all she was left with was broken confetti all over the ground. For a beauty who lacks reverence for her career and only plays the role of embellishment, it is only a matter of time before she goes downhill.
However, for those artists with strength, even if they have fallen into a trough, they can rise again.
Such as Tang Yan, she has always been ridiculed for being unambitious, and rarely participated in film and television dramas after getting married. However, recently she made a gorgeous return with a "Flowers", won countless praises, and stood on the stage again.
The reason for this is, on the one hand, because her excellent works in the past have accumulated a certain aura for her, and on the other hand, because she is full of dedication to her career and spends three years carefully crafting a work.
seems to be due to luck, but behind it is her unremitting efforts and strength.
A smash hit may depend on chance, but if you want to gain a long-term foothold in the entertainment industry, you need to have the strength and skills to match. It's a pity that Yang Ying understood this too late.
The best nobleman is always yourself
I love the saying, 'What others give is only a green leaf, and you can enjoy the shade by making yourself into a big tree.'" This reveals the supreme wisdom of life – that the true shortcut lies in self-improvement.
Whether it is the star-studded entertainment industry or the ordinary and trivial daily life, luck psychology cannot gain a long-term foothold.
Mr. Wang Shimin, the founder of Youcore, once shared a rather revealing story. During his wife's MBA studies, he had a classmate who was keen on all kinds of social activities and never stopped. Whether it's dinners, parties, or competitions, she devotes 3-4 days a week to accumulating contacts.
She firmly believes: "The core value of studying for an MBA is to expand your network. Indeed, she is very popular on campus and proud of her close relationships with professors.
However, when she encountered difficulties in the graduation defense, no one reached out to help, resulting in her having to postpone her graduation by one year. On the contrary, Wang Shimin's wife devoted most of her time to studying, and with her diligence and hard work, she not only achieved outstanding academic results, but also won the high recognition of her teachers and the sincere respect of her classmates.
When she had a problem with her graduation, her classmates around her were willing to help her successfully complete her studies.
People are often eager to find shortcuts in life, but the reality is that there are not many true shortcuts. Those things that are acquired by Karakuri can also be easily lost; Only by striving for it in a down-to-earth manner can we move forward steadily.
Even if there are connections or shortcuts that temporarily bring a good life, when the waves of life come in, the lack of ability to cope with challenges will inevitably lead to a panicked situation.
As Yang Ying's experience shows, only solid self-improvement is a solid foundation to resist the wind and rain of life and sit firmly under the tree of life. ”
In the entertainment industry where traffic is dominant, everything comes easily, she was deceived and gave up her efforts.
When the tide of the flow recedes, the tuyere disappears, and the original shape appears, only to find that it is only himself who swims naked.
Yang Ying is undoubtedly lucky.
She met the Bole of her life, had top-notch resources, and shined in the spotlight.
However, she also paved the way for herself today.
Even if a female star falls, her life can still be colorful, and fans still don't give up.
However, ordinary women need to learn from real talents and continue to improve themselves.
We must work hard and forge ahead.
Work gives us self-confidence, dignity, a sense of worth, and the confidence to live.
We need to have the ability to make money.
Even if you have a small income, you must always maintain the skills to make money, because financial independence is the real initiative.
As Liang Wendao said:
It is essential that a woman has the ability to live a good life and possess qualities that no one else can take away. ”
Opportunities need to be earned, but fate has to be written by itself. It is always wise to leave a way out for yourself.