In our lives, there will always be some people who only appear in our lives briefly, bring us some laughter, some touch, and then quietly leave. How should we look at such a short period of companionship? Should it be seen as a reward, or should it be seen as a punishment?
As a veteran emotional expert, I would say that it all depends on your own mindset. If you are a person who knows how to cherish, then such a short companionship is a reward. Because you know that every encounter in life is a fate, and every companionship is a gift. You will not force this companionship to last forever, you will only cherish every moment of the moment, and be grateful for the happiness and warmth that this short companionship brings you.
However, if you are a greedy person, then such a short companionship can turn into a punishment. Because you will expect this companionship to last forever, and when it inevitably ends, you will feel pain and loss. You will feel that this is the unfairness of life to you, the cruelty of fate to you.
In fact, every encounter and parting in life is an arrangement of fate. We can't force every encounter to last forever, and we shouldn't feel pain and loss because of every parting. We should learn to accept this normalcy of life, learn to find happiness in every encounter, and find growth in every parting.
Therefore, if someone gives you a short period of companionship, you should not see it as a reward or punishment, but as a chance that life gives you. This opportunity gives you the opportunity to experience the beauty of love, to feel the warmth of companionship, and also to learn to let go and accept parting.
In general, every encounter and parting in life is an opportunity for us to grow. We should cherish these opportunities and be grateful for these experiences, whether they are ephemeral or permanent. Because these are the gifts that life gives us and the driving force for our growth.