In the process of preparing the account "Blue Garden", I watched the Korean movie "Single Seoul" starring Lee Dong Wook and Lim so Jing, and the Douban rating is very low, if it weren't for the two leading actors, the appeal of this movie may be very low.
After watching it, I told my friend that Lee Dong Wook was playing me.
The character played by Lee Dong Wook runs an Instagram account that shares stories about his life alone. This is also something that Blue Park will share. When Lin Xiujing's publishing house approached him and wanted him to expand from Instagram to a story column, he named the column:
It's good to be alone.
However, Lin Xiujing's publishing house thinks it should be changed to:
It's okay to be alone.
Lee Dong-wook doesn't think that's what he's trying to say. It has also involved a lot of in-depth debates in anthropology and history. But in the end, both agreed, and the name was settled:
Because of one person, it doesn't matter
I also set the direction of sharing "Blue Park" long before that: witty solitary life.
I like the witty xx life series of Korean dramas very much, about what kind of witty life "Blue Garden" will be, I have given several candidates for the word xx, and the ideas in parentheses made me cross out these candidates one by one:
Solitude (the word "place" seems to emphasize more on one's relationship with oneself, oneself with oneself).
Cocoon dwelling (too closed).
Living alone (for some reason always has a dangerous atmosphere).
Ego (selfishness).
One person (a sense of self-reliance).
In the end, "alone" stayed, and the "self" in it even made me feel free.
What made me decide to start living alone on my own? The failure of a relationship seven years ago? The failure of chasing love six years ago? Failure to get along five years ago? Or did the increasingly unpleasant work make me realize that if I want not to hurt others, I have to curl up my own thorns?
Perhaps the most direct reason was the sudden death of my father more than a year ago, and I had to quickly plan my life and decide the future path of my life. The most important thing is where to settle down and what kind of person you want to become.
Although he was born and raised in the ** belt area, he is a native of the southern minority (Guangxi Zhuang), but he spent most of his time in Beijing, and he is used to liking the dry climate here, and he has more or less realized his life value here. But housing prices were too high, so I had to settle for the next best thing and buy my own house in a small town not far from Beijing. Coupled with the fact that the last two years of work have not been smooth and there is no way forward (from 2016 to 2023, I was the Music Editor Media Progammer of Apple Music Greater China under the English name "Charlotte Lan"), I reorganized my life dreams and realized that I had already fulfilled many of my adolescent dreams around the age of 30 - to work with Pu Shu; star chasing; Contribute to the industry; Become the Music Editor of Apple Music. But the dream that is really rooted in my heart, the writer's dream, is still hesitating and not daring to go on the road to realize it. Of course, because of the company's policy, after joining Apple, I stopped writing in 2016.
Writing, in today's complex society, should be the most difficult to realize and the least needed kind of dream. The first creator has always been at the bottom end in China, and with the popularity of today's ** and artificial intelligence creation, text is cheaper. I have no skills or talent, how can I use writing to make a living? Thinking too much can become a hindrance, so I simply stop thinking about these meaningless questions and immediately dive into them.
The story to be told is presented in front of you, and the structure has been roughly prepared in the process of renovating your own house. Father and mother and me, three stories, there are clues involved, but I hope that they can be written separately. The Blue Garden, on the other hand, is to record and share my current solo life. Just like Lee Dong Wook shared his life alone in "Single Seoul".
Is it lonely and lonely to live alone? Lee Dong Wook's role is denied in the play. Even think.
Alone is an evolutionarily successful human being."
The only person who is right with me is myself".
**Ten Thousand Fans Incentive Plan Although I am not so "extreme", I also feel that living alone is the most suitable life I can get and spend at present. A long time ago, a man who tried to be my other half told me that he felt that I was already a circle, living to the fullest, and that I didn't need the other half or a third.
One, a quarter. By borrowing this "circle" in his "auspicious words", I changed it to another word, garden, not only to myself, but also to my surroundings. I would like to use "Blue Garden" to express that a person's life can be fulfilled in this way.
Blue Park" including but not limited to the following:
Home decoration lifestyle to get along with yourself and be alone.
Read Literature English Translation Literature.
Wear perfume.
Recipe. Currently fond or called shallow research:
#k-drama #k-pop #c-pop
The Po family. Korean Literature Korean language learning.
IKEA.
Van Gogh. Guerlain Guerlain
Written in traditional Chinese characters.
Psychology Miffy Nijntje Miffy
Huang Zitao, Song Qian, Nam Joo-hyuk.
Finally, let me introduce myself and the Blue Garden again
I want to be a literary writer, a writer, and prefer non-fiction genre works;
Beginner Korean Learner, fluent in English;
Worked as a music editor at Apple Music for seven years, responsible for recommending Chinese** C-pop overseas);
For two years at Condé Nast Tr**Eler, he was the Digital Editor, where he was responsible for editing and writing articles with a focus on hospitality and lifestyle.
Blue Garden, my humble house, has its own heart world. All the little things that happen in the Blue Garden, all the little things placed in the Blue Garden, are the reason why I am happy every day. I hope that more people can find peace and happiness in their own hearts.