In today's fast-paced world, many parents are busy working and making money, resulting in less and less time they spend with their children, and reducing communication has a little impact on children's physical and mental health. The busier you are, the more time you need to spend with your children to increase parent-child affection and let your children further feel the love of their parents, which is very beneficial to their growth. At the same time, it can also enable children to understand the preciousness of family affection in this feeling and learn to honor their parents.
1. The harm caused by ineffective communication
Leads to a bad relationship between parents and children
A harmonious parent-child relationship should be one in which parents love each other harmoniously and respectfully with their children. In this case, effective parent-child communication can take place. Effective parent-child communication will, in turn, help parents and children establish a closer parent-child relationship.
Make your child feel insecure
When parents are accustomed to communicating with their children in a one-sided way of communication, children always accept negative information from parents, which is easy to form an unsafe factor for children, thinking that parents don't care about themselves, so they will talk to themselves like that, and over time, children will have psychological insecurity.
2. How to communicate effectively
Learn to understand your child
Put yourself in their shoes and try to communicate with your child to truly understand your child's true thoughts and give support or encouragement. If you can, you can also participate together after asking your child's opinion so that your child feels that we are with him.
Be sure to learn to speak subtly
The content of the speech is very important, but using different methods to say it will have different effects, in fact, many adults also understand this feeling, not to mention children, who simply do not have the ability to analyze what their parents say. When parents want to see the outcome of things, then they must clearly tell the other party the result they want.
Respond positively to your child's questions
Children are very curious, especially children, and they can't stop asking "What is this?" all day long. ”。Parents may have answered many times and are too lazy to pay attention to him, or parents may not know how to answer the questions asked by their children, so they just say a few words, answer what they asked, and fool the past.
Educating children is like raising flowers, careful watering, fertilization, and care can be successful, but in fact, not everyone can raise flowers well, and if you don't understand, you have to ask others for advice and learn the experience and art of raising flowers.
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