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I have seen such a conclusion on the Internet:
A well-protected person has an obvious manifestation, that is, someone attacks him, and his reaction is not to fight back, nor to get angry, but to look dazed, and sometimes to froze.
In real life, I believe that almost everyone, has encountered such a situation:
That is, whether in the workplace, school, family life or society, there will always be some people who are malicious and aggressive towards us for no reason;
When encountering this kind of thing, everyone's reaction is very different, and some people will immediately fight back;
Some people simply quarrel with each other and do not back down from each other;
Some people simply pretend not to hear, and they will not get angry, and continue to do their own thing;
There are also people who are startled by the other party's accusations and yin and yang weirdness, and their faces are dazed and at a loss, and then they begin to reflect, what did they do wrong?
Or did you offend the other party?
As a result, the last type of person is considered by others to be the one who is too well protected.
To be honest, I don't think this kind of conclusion is fair to the parties;
Why people don't want to admit that in reality, there are some people who are born with "bad intentions";
They may have been "marginalized" in this society, not loved well and treated fairly;
Therefore, they have a lot of anger and aggression in their hearts, and they may not explode under any circumstances;
And their anger, insinuating and mocking, in many cases, is not specific to specific objects and has no logic;
That is, it is not because you have offended him and hurt him that he will attack you;
Sometimes, just because of your presence, he stirs up some unbearable memories in him, he is angry, ashamed, and will be mercilessly angry at you.
In fact, I think it is normal for a person to be stunned and dazed when being attacked;
Because it is difficult for a normal person to make sufficient "plans" for sudden malice, unless he is always on alert and in a state of 'fighting';
The malice of others is also traceless and very random.
He was stunned, didn't understand, and was puzzled, there were several possibilities:
The first is that they don't like to fight back against others in a way they hate.
The second is that they are kind by nature, like to be kind to others, and do not like to live in a harsh environment where you fight with me;
The third is his original family and the people who come and go, very warm and friendly, simple, he adapts to this environment and atmosphere, so that when he encounters someone who is suddenly aggressive, he will feel inexplicable and out of place.
The fourth type is that they react slowly, commonly known as blunt and sensitive.
Just like when we watched "Hurricane", Gao Qiqiang and Xu Jiang once had a conversation on the ferry, Gao Qiqiang warned Xu Jiang not to think about the idea of playing Qiangsheng PHS, because he mistakenly thought that it was Xu Jiang who set fire to his PHS store and wanted to burn down his PHS shop, and Xu Jiang at this time was at a loss;
Because of what he hadn't done, he must have been warned and threatened by Gao Qiqiang suddenly and inexplicably, and he must not have been able to react;
Does this mean that Xu Jiang is well protected?
and Gao Qiqiang asked Gao Qisheng, did he kidnap Meng Yu?
Gao Qisheng's first reaction was also stunned, and then doubted, defending himself, could it be that Gao Qisheng, who lost his parents since he was a child, was displaced, and his life was too well protected?
It can only be said that if you think that others are not suitable for the workplace and society, and after being attacked, you must be the ones who are too well protected, and you are the ones who are really too well protected!
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