Good evening, this is the popular news client "Night Reading". The article I want to share with you today is "The First Reaction to Trouble, Hiding Your Pattern".
Someone on the Internet asked, "How can I see a person as they really are?" A high praise replied: "Look at what his first reaction is." ”
When you think about it, it is. In life, each of us will inevitably encounter a variety of unexpected situations, and when it is too late to think, different people have different ways of coping. The size of a person's pattern is often reflected in these seemingly insignificant behaviors.
See cultivation in case of trouble.
I agree with the saying: "When you send out your temper, that's called instinct; Take back your temper to be called a skill. "When we encounter something unpleasant, when negative emotions instantly come to our hearts, we often can't help but lose our temper, and if we can still keep our sanity at this time, it is very valuable.
People will always encounter some unsatisfactory people in their lives, encounter many unsatisfactory things, only learn to empathize, know how to deal with it calmly, in order to unconsciously practice the ability to calm down.
See your mind in case of trouble.
A person's mind often determines how much he can do. A person's first reaction when he encounters an accident is very reflective of his mind.
Each of us has cognitive blind spots, and even the top experts in a certain field may encounter knowledge that we have not yet dried. When you have the courage to admit when you encounter a blind spot in knowledge, you can humbly seek advice, you can gain the respect of others, and you can further improve yourself.
Whether it is work or life, we all need to be kind to ourselves and humble to others. When you have a broad mind, the road ahead will naturally become wider and wider.
See the vision in case of trouble.
I once saw such a sentence: "When you fall to the bottom one day, your vision determines the height of your **." "Some people only see the darkness of the abyss, and feel sorry for themselves in despair and pain; However, some people can see the light above their heads, rise up in firm optimism, and move towards the top step by step.
The path of life has ups and downs, your vision will affect your actions, and your actions will affect your future. What really traps a person is never the thing itself, but what he can see. Only by jumping out of the one-third of an acre in front of us and looking into the distance can we get out of trouble in time and even create unexpected miracles.
There is a pattern for doing things, and the results will not be too bad; There is a pattern of being a person, and the popularity will be very good. May you and I be able to become people with a pattern and have a better life.
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Editor-in-chief: Li Wei.
Anchor: Li Wei.
Editor of this issue: Gao Xiang.
Curator: Gao Xiang.