What does the child really want? This is an issue that is often overlooked. Deep in every child's heart, there is a desire to be noticed, appreciated, and understood. They want their voices to be heard, they want their presence to be recognized. This desire comes from the most primitive needs of the human heart - a sense of accomplishment and belonging.
A sense of accomplishment is a sense of satisfaction that comes from the heart, and it comes from the fact that our efforts and efforts have been recognized and appreciated by others. For children, this sense of accomplishment comes from being seen, understood, and respected. It is only when they feel that their presence is valued that they build self-confidence and are brave enough to face life's challenges.
A sense of belonging is a deep need for security in the human heart. Everyone wants to belong to a certain group, to be accepted, to be loved. For children, this sense of belonging comes from the warmth of family and the love of parents. When a child feels the warmth and support of his family, he will establish a stable sense of security and learn self-esteem and self-love.
When we recognize our children more, listen to their inner voices, and give them more encouragement and support, they will feel loved. This feeling of being loved will become a source of inner strength for them to learn self-affirmation and self-growth. Just as the germination and growth of seeds need sunshine and rain, the growth of children also needs our encouragement and recognition. Let us pay attention to the spiritual needs of children and nourish their growth path with love.
The fragrance of books nourishes the family style