Just after the Spring Festival, the most asked during the period is whether you have found a partner, when you will get married, you are not young, you have to hurry. If you're not married yet, will you be asked the same question?
I am 35 years old this year, and my personal conditions are relatively ordinary. Usually relatives and friends also help introduce the object, but now I know a person who works in the government unit, and I can talk about it, but I don't like it.
Relatives always say don't be so picky, feelings can be cultivated slowly. Now I feel very conflicted, I feel that she is not the object of my heart, but when she is older, she is afraid that she will not have a chance if she misses it.
It cannot be denied that marriage is an important life choice for many people. It means stability, affection, responsibility, and commitment. Should we compromise with marriage or stick to finding true love as we age?
For those older leftover men and women who have entered the palace of marriage, they may have realized that marriage is a part of their life and a necessary path in their lives. They may have already met the right person, or encountered various difficulties and challenges in their search, and finally chose to compromise the marriage.
However, for many older leftover men and women who still insist on finding someone they like, they may be more focused on emotional satisfaction and spiritual resonance.
They may believe that marriage should not be just about meeting physical needs and family responsibilities, but should be based on mutual support and understanding based on feelings. They may be more willing to spend time and energy looking for someone who can connect with their hearts and minds, rather than easily compromise the marriage.
So, for older leftover men and women, how to balance these two options?
First, we need to recognize that everyone has their own values and lifestyle. Whether you choose to compromise your marriage or insist on finding true love, it should be based on your personal wishes and actual circumstances. We can't force anyone to make a choice, and we can't make moral judgments on anyone.
Second, we need to learn to accept our choice and face it positively. Whether you choose to compromise your marriage or persist in finding true love, you need to face your inner and outer eyes. You need to believe that your decision was the right one and be willing to take responsibility and consequences for your choice.
In short, the choice for older leftover men: compromise marriage, or insist on finding someone you like?
Everyone's answer is different. The most important thing is to maintain a positive mindset and a strong belief in your choice, and learn to accept your choice and face it positively. As you grow and learn, you will find your own path to happiness.
If it were you, how would you choose? Comments are welcome!