In our lives, we will always encounter some things that make it difficult for us to choose and let go. These things may be related to interests, or they may be related to emotions, but in any case, we should learn to treat them rationally and grasp a good degree. As the ancients said, "There are some things that can be taken care of, but don't overdo it; Some people can care, but don't be obsessed; Some pain, you can immerse yourself, but don't take too long. This sentence expresses the essence of the philosophy of life and is worth savoring repeatedly.
First of all, there are some things that can be taken care of, but don't overdo it. In real life, we will always encounter some unfair things, and at this time, we need to learn to fight for our rights. However, in the process of striving for it, we must pay attention to proportions and must not be too serious. People who are too calculating are often prone to get caught up in endless disputes, which not only damages interpersonal relationships, but also may bring endless troubles to themselves. As an old saying goes, "When you have to let go, let go, and let go of others." "Learning to be tolerant can not only resolve conflicts, but also make our hearts broader.
Secondly, some people can care, but don't be obsessed. Relationships are an integral part of our lives, and we will always meet someone who makes our heart flutter. However, in the process of interacting with others, we must learn to be rational and not too persistent. People who are too persistent are prone to falling into the whirlpool of emotions, which not only hurts themselves, but may also cause distress to others. As a poem says: "When we meet, it is difficult to say goodbye, and the east wind is powerless." "Learning to let go is not only able to free yourself, but also to make each other's lives better.
Finally, there is some pain, you can immerse yourself, but not for too long. There will always be ups and downs in life, and we will always encounter some things that make us miserable. In the face of pain, we must learn to adjust our mentality, and we must not immerse ourselves in pain for a long time. People who have been immersed in pain for a long time are prone to losing confidence and hope for the future. As the famous saying goes, "Life is like a dream, everything is fleeting." "Learning to let go can make us better meet the challenges of the future.
In conclusion, there are many things in our lives that need to be treated sensibly. We must learn to grasp a degree, neither too calculating, nor too persistent, let alone immersed in pain for a long time. Only in this way can we go further and further on the road of life, and go more and more smoothly. Let us keep in mind this wise saying: "There are some things that can be taken care of, but not too much; Some people can care, but don't be obsessed; Some pain, you can immerse yourself, but don't take too long. "Let us face the challenges of life with tolerance, reason and a strong mind, and write our own wonderful life.