The current society is too impetuous. Everyone is anxious to enjoy life and make their dreams come true. Even if you may take some detours, or even know that it is an abyss, you will uncontrollably want to try it.
However, there are many relationships between men and women, which are licking blood on the tip of a knife. If you are not careful, it is easy to get scarred and even shattered.
Some women always naively think that while they are still young, they will play when they should play, make trouble when they should make trouble, and love when they should love.
Even if he knows that he will be deceived, as long as he can give himself temporary happiness, it is enough. When you have had enough, you will find an excellent man to marry, and you will not have too many regrets for the rest of your life.
But do you really take honest men for fools? In this life, people pay attention to cause and effect, and what cause you plant will naturally produce what kind of effect.
In fact, who you will marry as a wife has long been predestined.
1.Look at the circle you're inYour social circle not only determines the type and number of people you can reach, but also invisibly shapes your values and attitude towards life.
If you are in a positive, motivated circle, then you will naturally be influenced by this atmosphere and become equally hardworking and ambitious. In such an environment, you are more likely to meet men who are like-minded and equally good with you.
Conversely, if you are in a circle that is filled with negativity, depravity, you are likely to assimilate into that environment as well, attracting men who are not the right fit for you.
Therefore, the first thing to do to find a good partner is to improve your social circle and surround yourself with people who can bring you positive energy and encourage you to grow.
2.Look at your ability to learn and iterateIn today's ever-changing era, only by constantly learning and improving oneself can we keep up with the pace of the times and become a competitive person. And for women, this ability to learn and iterate is especially important.
A woman with wisdom and connotation can often attract men who are equally excellent and have the same pursuit.
Because they know how to keep pace with the times, how to constantly improve their value and charm.
On the contrary, if a woman is stagnant and does not want to make progress, then she is likely to be eliminated by the times and it will be difficult for her to find a truly excellent partner.
Therefore, if you want to marry an excellent man, you must constantly improve your ability and wisdom to become an attractive and connotative woman.
3.Look at the male friends around youAs the saying goes, "Things gather by like, and people are divided by groups." "The male friends around you are often a reflection of your personality, hobbies and values.
If your male friends are responsible, responsible, and pursuing people, then you will be more inclined to this type when choosing a partner. Because you feel that such a man can give you a sense of security and be able to grow with you.
On the other hand, if you are surrounded by male friends who are distracted, irresponsible, and unpursued, then you are likely to be influenced by them as well, and thus make bad decisions when choosing a partner.
Therefore, if you want to find a good partner, you must pay attention to whether the male friends around you have excellent qualities and a sense of responsibility.
At the same time, we should also learn to learn from their strengths and avoid their weaknesses, so as to continuously improve our own mate selection criteria.