There are many things in life that are difficult to control and control, and the most mysterious and unpredictable of them is love.
We often ask ourselves, "Who will I marry?" There doesn't seem to be a definitive answer to this question, but in fact, many times, we will find out that who we will marry is actually "predestined" long ago.
You may be confused by this, but be assured, there is a scientific basis for this. Next, I will go through a few points of analysis to ** this topic.
First of all, we need to understand that love is a chemical reaction. When we meet someone, the brain releases chemicals like dopamine, adrenaline, etc., which make us feel excited, our hearts racing, and our emotions soar.
The occurrence of these chemicals often depends on the degree of genetic match between us and the other party.
That is, whether or not we are prone to chemistry with a certain person is largely determined by our genes. Therefore, who we will marry may be predestined the moment we meet him.
Secondly, our upbringing and experiences will also affect who we will marry. For example, the family environment in which we grew up, the marital status of our parents, and our relationship experience will all have an impact on our future marriage choices.
If we grow up in a happy family environment, we may be more inclined to choose a partner who can give us security; If we've ever experienced emotional trauma, we may be more inclined to choose someone who can ** us. Therefore, our upbringing and environment will also determine who we will marry.
The above two points are just some of the factors, and there are many more factors that determine who we will marry. However, no matter who we will marry, we should cherish the person in front of us.
Because it is he who accompanies us through every stage of life, and it is he who experiences the joys, sorrows and sorrows of life with us. At the same time, we should also learn to cherish ourselves and believe in our life trajectory and choices.
Summary:
Love is a wonderful fate that allows us to meet someone at some point and then spend the rest of our lives with them. And who we will marry is actually "predestined" a long time ago.
This point of view is not the embodiment of fatalism, but the thinking and perception of the unavoidable factors in life.
We can't control our origins, upbringing, genetics, etc., but we can control our mindset and choices. When we learn to cherish the people and things in front of us, we will find that everything is arranged for the best.
In the days to come, may we all be grateful for every encounter in our lives and cherish the happiness and beauty in front of us. May we all be brave enough to face the challenges and difficulties in life and embrace the future with a positive attitude.
Only in this way can we truly live our own life values and make love and marriage the best chapter of our lives.