Women's friendship mostly stops at getting married and having children, do you agree?
Some netizens lamented that after their girlfriends got married and had children, their relationship with them was not as good as before.
Especially after giving birth to a baby, the focus has shifted to the family, and the usual chatting is basically to ask for emotional value.
For example, she had a quarrel with her husband and asked me to comfort her; Her mother-in-law had wronged her, and I was relieved to find a way to deal with her mother-in-law's ......After I gave her the emotional value, she lost contact.
Then you ask her out to play, and she doesn't have time most of the time, either to go to work or to take care of the kids at home.
If you ask her to come to the house to play, she will bring her husband and children with her, and there is no way to let go of them to play.
finally waited for her to come out with an appointment, and she was in a hurry, and rushed home to take the baby after a meal.
Later, they slowly drifted apart from each other.
Some people don't have to wait until they get married and have children to find that their friendship stops.
They fall in love, and all the topics are already boyfriends.
In her heart, men are more important, unless that man ignores her or has a fight with them, she will come to you.
You can make friends with this kind of "sexual supremacy" person, but it is not recommended to have a deep relationship!
Because they tend to ignore friendship because of "sexual relationship"!
Really, my girlfriend and I are like that, our friendship has changed since we got married and had children.
I asked her to go on a trip with her, and she had a family that she couldn't spare time; I said to go out to eat and go shopping, she said it was so expensive, this ** could buy a lot of toys and snacks for her daughter; I said buy some skin care products to take care of myself, and she said that her husband didn't dislike her, saying that I was really willing to spend money on myself.
I was speechless!
Sometimes,I don't think friendship can be done to meet and accompany each other often, and it's still good to keep in touch at that time!
But when you contact her, or she takes the initiative to contact you, it is all "resentful complaints", and at first you will think about her and help her give advice and solve problems.
But after a long time, she complained a lot, and she couldn't make any changes.
You'll get tired of listening, and then she realizes that she's all about negative energy, and she's embarrassed to talk to you.
Or to chat with you, just a few words of hush on the surface, there is no topic to talk about.
Gradually, the contact was not as frequent as before, and the friendship was like that.
I agree that most of women's friendships stop at getting married and having children, but we can't blame them.
Because not everyone can have freedom after marriage, no one to take care of the children, and the family burden is heavy, she can no longer be the lively and free she used to be, she has many more layers of identity - "mother, wife, daughter-in-law", and the responsibility on her shoulders has become heavier!
As friends, it's good that we understand clearly, and it's good to keep an appropriate distance!
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