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Strength and Sincerity: The Difference Between Good and Pleased
In relationships, we often think about how to treat others. Some people believe that if you don't have strength, don't be nice to others, otherwise it is easy to be defined as pleaser. This point of view leads us to think about the relationship between strength and sincerity.
First of all, strength does affect our interactions with others to a certain extent. Having strength allows us to express our opinions and ideas more confidently, and it is easier to gain the recognition and respect of others. However, this does not mean that you cannot be good to others without strength.
Being kind to others is a positive act in itself, and it stems from inner kindness and love. This kindness can be reflected in caring for the needs of others, providing help, giving support, etc. Sincere goodness is not purposeful, it is out of respect for others and a willingness to think about others.
If our goodness is defined as pleaser, it may be because of the way we behave or express it in a way that makes people misunderstand it. Pleasing is often utilitarian, and it is an act that is performed in order to gain the approval or reward of others. In contrast, sincere goodness is based on one's own values and emotions, rather than to meet the expectations of others.
To avoid being defined as flattering, we can work on the following aspects. First of all, be convinced of your own worth and goodwill. Being good to others is because we want it in our hearts, not because we want something. Secondly, we should pay attention to the authenticity and consistency of behavior. Our good should be authentic and credible, not contrived on the surface. Also, learn to set boundaries, not over-pander to others, and maintain your independence and principles.
At the same time, we should also recognize that everyone's understanding and feeling of good may be different. Some people may misunderstand our good intentions, while others will truly appreciate and respond to our good The key to being good is to stick to your own values and not be swayed by the opinions of others.
Strength is important, but sincerity and kindness are equally indispensable. Even if we are not strong enough in some areas, we can still treat others with sincere kindness. This kind of goodness not only warms the hearts of others, but also brings satisfaction and positive interpersonal relationships to ourselves.
In interpersonal interactions, don't skimp on being kind to others for fear of being defined as pleasing them. By treating others with sincerity and kindness and constantly improving our own strengths, we will build more authentic and meaningful relationships. Because true goodness will not be misunderstood, it will win the sincere response and respect of others.