In 2024, more and more elderly people will become popular with such ideas, and they will become more and more popular
Decide to live your own life and not live with your children.
By 2024, the minds of the elderly will change, and more elderly people will live alone rather than with their children. The reason is that the relationship between mother-in-law and mother-in-law has always been an insurmountable hurdle, and if you live with your children, it is inevitable that there will be some trivial things. In addition, when the elderly grow up, because their lifestyles and needs are different from those of young people, there will also be conflicts in their interactions. For example, young people love to eat spicy things, while older people are less sensitive to spicy things; Young people prefer crunchy foods, while older people prefer softer ingredients. Therefore, many elderly people will adopt the way of living alone to solve this contradiction.
There is a sister-in-law in our village, and since her husband died, she has taken turns living with her two children. But she found that no matter which son's house she went to, they avoided it, and refused to even go out to eat. This shows that Aunt Wang senses that her children have caused her trouble, and she doesn't want to worry about her anymore. This made Sister-in-law Wang very regretful, why didn't she live with her children earlier. Now, at the age of seventy, she wants to go to her hometown, but the house is no longer inhabitable. This is a warning to our children, don't give them too much time, and when they do want to do it, they will give it their all.
You can move freely, you can live your own life, and you can choose to hire an hourly worker.
It is also common practice for older people to live alone when their spouses leave. This can help you do sports and retain some of your own freedom. If you really can't walk, you can ask an hourly worker to help. Instead of hiring a babysitter, it's better to find an hourly job. Because, the overnight nanny is indeed a little inconvenient, and the salary is also very high. Also, having a stranger wander around the house makes the old man very uncomfortable.
Decide not to live in a nursing home, but to keep your home.
Another option is that the elderly firmly refuse to live in nursing homes. Although the care home will provide good service, the elderly will be afraid of not being able to anticipate the temperament of the care home attendants. In the sanatorium, they are also deprived of their freedom and can no longer go to ** if they want to. In addition, in the eyes of the elderly, their hometown can give them a very down-to-earth feeling, and for the elderly, the familiar place is the most important.
Even if you are sick, you should save your children's money.
When older people themselves get sick, they try not to spend money on their children. When the elderly are sick, they will inform their children in advance that if they are only slightly unwell, they will use medicine instead of injections; They would rather not be injected than injected; As for surgery, care, chemotherapy, radiotherapy, etc., they will never do it. The elderly know that it is not easy for their children to earn money, and they do not want their illness to become a burden, and they also want to alleviate their pain.
Stop looking for new partners.
Old people usually don't look for new people because their spouses have left. They learned that the new spouse they were looking for was likely to have children of their own, and that they did not have a deep affection for the elderly. These people are easily bothered by small things, and even go out to eat AA. When the elderly are really in need, will they do their best to care for the elderly? So older people prefer to live alone rather than looking for their other half.
The funeral was simple and not extravagant.
Third, the elderly tend to hold their funerals in a simple, austereine manner. They don't want their children to waste too much time and energy on funerals. For them, a dead man is a dead man, just bury the body. When they were alive, they gave whatever they wanted to eat, and they were honored to those whom their children were to be honored. When they die, the old people want to die peacefully. They feel that it is enough to live, and there is no need to engage in all the bells and whistles.
In short, by 2024, the elderly will make smarter decisions, not rely on the children, they will hire hourly jobs, maintain their homes, save money for the children, not find new objects, and simplify the funeral. They know how to cherish life, and they know how to be happy and free. Such a mindset is very valuable.
As an editor of the Internet, I also felt a lot when sorting out the thoughts of the elderly. The elders around me have entered middle age, and they have a clearer plan for their future life. As the saying goes, life is like a drama, and we can't escape the fate of being old, old, sick, old, and sick. So, we have to live well, live well, live well. If you think what I'm saying is right, please leave your comment in the comments section and give me a like, or save it. Thank you for watching, and see you next time!