My aunt participated in the "Runaway Group", and before the family of four changed into a mouthful, she regretted that I was wrong
With the encouragement of her son and daughter-in-law, Aunt Wang, who is in her sixties, began to explore her later life and gradually became obsessed with the activity of "rampage". However, as she flourished in this field and gradually regained the self-confidence of her youth, she found that her relatives had left her one after another.
It has been less than three months since joining the "Rampaging Group", and the originally harmonious family of four was finally left with only the lonely Aunt Wang.
People like you deserve to live alone! ”
The daughter-in-law yelled at Aunt Wang angrily, and even her own son watched coldly and did not step forward to persuade her. When Aunt Wang heard this, she couldn't help but burst into tears and begged for an apology. What's going on here?
Aunt Wang, who was born and raised in Beijing, worked as an accountant in a well-known shopping mall and enjoyed a generous salary. This allowed her son to live a prosperous life from an early age.
Aunt Wang's son has always been a competitive child, loves to read, and his grades have always been among the best, and he was finally admitted to a 985 university in Beijing. In order to celebrate their son's excellent results, the family of three decided to travel together.
A family of three followed the tour group to a scenic spot with a beautiful scenery and planned a mountain climbing trip. However, Aunt Wang's husband said that he was a little dizzy and unwilling to go up the mountain before leaving. The son mistakenly thought that his father was afraid to go up the mountain because he was afraid of heights, so he dragged him up the mountain.
However, things didn't go as planned. When the family was halfway up the mountain, Aunt Wang's husband suddenly fell to the ground with a pale face, foaming at the mouth and convulsing. Aunt Wang was frightened, and they urgently called the rescue**, but the terrain in the mountains is complicated, and the rescue takes a lot of time.
In the end, due to the untimely rescue, Aunt Wang's husband unfortunately passed away. This incident left a psychological shadow on Aunt Wang, who felt painful about her husband's death. Since then, she has never set foot at the foot of the mountain or traveled again.
Now, the son has started a family, and Aunt Wang has retired. In order to take care of Aunt Wang's body, her son and daughter-in-law chose to live with her. The daughter-in-law never complained about this decision, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have always gotten along harmoniously.
A year passed, and Aunt Wang's daughter-in-law became pregnant with a child, so Aunt Wang took care of her wholeheartedly. From pregnancy to the birth of the child, Aunt Wang has always been by her daughter-in-law's side, and even took the initiative to cook and wash clothes for her during the confinement period. When the child cried in the middle of the night, in order not to disturb her daughter-in-law's rest, Aunt Wang even took the child to her own house to take care of it.
However, the son and daughter-in-law are keenly aware that Aunt Wang's condition is deteriorating every day, and she has become like a robot, mechanically fulfilling the responsibilities of mother and mother-in-law. Aunt Wang's smile hasn't appeared on her face for a long time.
For more than ten years, Aunt Wang seems to be just a robot, fulfilling the duties of a mother and mother-in-law.
When the child was weaned and learned to walk, the son and daughter-in-law proposed to sign up for an elderly tour group for Aunt Wang to let her go out and relax. However, Aunt Wang has a psychological shadow on tourism and strongly refuses. So the son devised a plan.
The daughter-in-law prepared the items needed for the trip for Aunt Wang in advance, while the son tricked her into going to the mall to shop, and drove the car to the meeting point of the tour group. So, the couple planned a surprise trip for their mother.
At first, Aunt Wang was very resistant, but her son had already prepared his luggage, and the cost of the tour group had been spent, so Aunt Wang had no choice but to embark on the journey.
During the trip, Aunt Wang met many people her age and learned about a new sport - rampage.
Aunt Wang, who was curious about this sport, followed the uncles and aunts in the same car to feel the passion of this sport.
On the first day, they hiked almost 10 kilometers, surprising everyone in the tour group. Aunt Wang tried this sport for the first time, but she did it easily, which is enough to show that she is an excellent seedling.
In the face of continuous praise and praise, Aunt Wang felt a little shy. After all, she had barely interacted with anyone else over the years, and she was deeply touched by this group of enthusiastic friends.
In the short time of travel, Aunt Wang quickly established a deep friendship with these friends, and quickly fell in love with the activity.
After returning to Beijing, Aunt Wang was still enthusiastic about the rampage and quickly joined a riot group in Beijing. The sport suddenly brought back her youthful passion, so she threw herself into the menace every day and came home late.
Seeing her mother's cheerful attitude now, Aunt Wang's son and daughter-in-law were very happy. However, as time went on, they found that Aunt Wang seemed to be overindulged.
One day, Aunt Wang's son and daughter-in-law had an urgent matter at work and entrusted the child to Aunt Wang's care. However, unlike in the past, Aunt Wang did not take care of her children as carefully as before, because in order to participate in the rampaging activities in the city, she actually locked the children at home alone.
In the evening, the daughter-in-law came home to find the child having fallen out of bed and had been crying. This made her very angry.
When Aunt Wang returned home, her son and daughter-in-law hoped to communicate with her. However, Aunt Wang became extremely excited and refused to communicate with them.
She even asked her son and daughter-in-law to find a sister-in-law for the child, because she now wants to pursue a new life and has no extra time to take care of the child.
Hearing such words, Aunt Wang's son and daughter-in-law were shocked. In the past, Aunt Wang's love for her little grandson was meticulous and took care of her very carefully, for fear that a little omission would hurt the child.
Today, Aunt Wang is indifferent to her children and family and has fallen into her own small world. Surprisingly, she became indifferent to her family, and even disdained to wash her own clothes, and threw them directly to her daughter-in-law who came home from work, asking her to help wash them and tidy them up with an iron.
At the same time, Aunt Wang's status in an organization called the "Ramp Group" gradually climbed. Thanks to her outstanding performance and age advantage, she managed to become the trusted head of the regiment.
As the head of the group, Aunt Wang often led the group to march on the streets, but because of this, she neglected traffic safety, and often led the team to run red lights and block the road, resulting in serious traffic problems and the whole street fell into chaos.
One day, while the riot group was walking on the street, Aunt Wang got into a heated argument with a driver for running a red light. However, she was very unreasonable, and the driver posted the ** of the conversation with her on the Internet, which attracted widespread attention. However, Aunt Wang didn't care and was still stubborn.
Under the pressure of the public, the riot group finally announced the removal of Aunt Wang from her position as head of the group. Aunt Wang reluctantly returned home, but when she opened the door, she was shocked by the scene in front of her.
The originally chaotic home environment instantly became orderly, even a little empty. Aunt Wang looked around and found that her son and daughter-in-law had already moved out with their little grandson, and now she was the only one left in the family.
Aunt Wang felt deeply remorseful, and quickly dialed her son's **. However, the daughter-in-law said coldly: "For a person like you, it is only appropriate to live alone." ”
As a result, Aunt Wang began to realize her own problems, and expressed her deep apologies to her son and daughter-in-law.
Looking back at the whole situation, it is not difficult to find that the core of the problem lies in the lack of attention to the elderly in the current society.
Although the younger generation is interested in caring for the elderly, they lack a deep understanding of their parents' situation and ignore the mental health problems of the elderly. We tend to place too much emphasis on what is good for the elderly and neglect to consider their feelings.
While encouraging the elderly to communicate with the outside world, we did not remind them of some social dangers they face in a timely manner, and did not give reasonable advice.
With the acceleration of urban development and the severity of population aging, many elderly people feel lost and lonely in modern society. In fact, what they need most is the understanding and companionship of their children.
In family life, communication is crucial. If there is a lack of communication and understanding in the family, it can eventually lead to fragmentation. Conflicts are a normal phenomenon in the family, so resolving and resolving conflicts is the key to affecting the harmony of the family.
It is hoped that every elderly person can feel the understanding and love of their children. At the same time, while pursuing personal interests and hobbies, they should also abide by the social order and become model citizens who understand and abide by the law.