Zhang Xiaoxian once said that the reason why a man hurts a woman is not because he likes other men, but because he lives up to her expectations of her.
As a woman, her demands have been ignored again and again, her thoughts have been doubted over and over again, her grievances are so bad that she can't find a place to vent, and her heart will inevitably get tired.
When the body is tired, you can rest, and when the mind is tired, there is only silence. The heart is tired, the kind of love that used to be, like a dead tree in spring, a silence, will always disappear without a trace.
The ancient Roman philosopher Seneca once said, "Those who mourn are many, but those who are sorrowful are silent." ”
A woman will be silent when she really doesn't care, she won't say anything when she doesn't care, but when her heart is completely hurt, she will be silent.
The list of quality authors has heard a proverb: "When you really have to leave, the closed door is the lightest".
When a person is tired, even if it is a quarrel, it is meaningless, because she knows that no matter how much she says, she will not solve any problems.
The unspeakable pain is the most painful, and the tears that cannot be shed are the coldest. When the tears are gone, there will be no more crying, a person's heart is already broken, he will give up, he just changes into an ordinary coat and leaves.
The women's world is very different from the men's world, and the women's world is more of a worldly triviality. Even the smallest action can make her sad or make him laugh.
The most important thing with the person you like is to be considerate of her mood and reduce her pressure.
Therefore, for a man, he should not look at his woman with his own three views, but should stand in the perspective of a woman, show tolerance for her unreasonableness, and try not to refute it, which may be the best solution.
Love is never a one-man show. Love can only be separated in understanding and cherishing, and love can only last in interdependence.
In the days to come, I hope that every sincerity can be cherished, and every friendship can stand the test of time.