Some people say: Marriage is firewood, rice, oil and salt, you need money, and you must have an economic foundation, not your parents will give you a bride price, hold a wedding, a house and a car of hundreds of thousands of yuan.
Marriage needs to be operated together, needs to be tolerant, needs to understand, needs to be accommodating, in marriage, understanding is more important than love, the need for character, three views, responsibility and responsibility, few people will love forever, after three years and five years, it is basically a partner to live.
One day after marriage, you will understand that the economic foundation is very important, but what is more important is a person's upbringing, responsibility, sense of responsibility, ability to control emotions, way of speaking and attitude towards things. ”
It is not easy for a family to be shaken in the wind and rain of life, and it is not easy to go to the end.
After all, marriage is not love, just talking about feelings is enough.
It is the daily life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and it is inseparable from the support of the economy.
The so-called poor couples mourn everything, and if they live together, if they have no money, they can even sit down and talk about their feelings calmly, which is a luxury.
Because the various contradictions caused by economic pressure will destroy all the gentleness and thoughtfulness of people, and make people anxious, irritable, and resentful.
Even if there are feelings, they will be defeated by reality, and they will be exhausted in the complaints and quarrels they have been grinding day after day.
Seriously, in the real society, any relationship needs the support of money and the backing of materials.
Talking about money, it's not cheesy, and if you don't have money, you're all kinds of powerless.
Oscar Wilde once said, "When I was young, I thought money was everything, but now when I am old, I realize that this is indeed the case." ”
Yes, in the adult world, all the good happiness is inseparable from the support of money.
Therefore, the first element in maintaining a marriage is economics, not feelings.
However, in a family, it is also painful to talk only about money and not about feelings.
Home is our warm harbor, because it can not only provide us with material support, but also our spiritual home.
If you are tired of working outside, you can get warmth at home, and if you are injured outside, you can get comfort from your family.
Because some people understand, some people care, and make all the efforts worthwhile, and make people's lives more warm.
If you only talk about money and don't talk about feelings, is that family still home?
Couples who don't care about each other and can't work together to fight against the difficulties of life can only consume each other and torture each other in the years.
Marriage needs to be operated together, and it needs to be tolerant, understanding and accommodating to each other.
In the ordinary daily life of married life, understanding is more important than love, and character is more important than feelings.
In this world, few people will love forever, when love goes through three years and five years, when marriage goes through seven years of itching, husband and wife are like touching their right hand with their left hand, and they are basically living together.
What do you need most to get by? A person's character, three views, responsibility and responsibility.
Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "Middle-aged couples rely on conscience, when the passion fades, marriage has just begun, the essence of marriage is companionship and responsibility, and mature love depends on conscience." ”
At the beginning, love may just be a feeling, but in the ups and downs of marriage, it is a kind of responsibility and companionship.
One day we will understand that a good marriage is not about how good the other party's conditions are, but how good he is to you.
In this **uninhibited, and full** world, if there is a person who can take that responsibility for us, give us a sense of security and loyalty, then he must be more charming than this world.
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