As a social person, we may all have to participate in some unfamiliar dinners, such as business entertainment, leadership arrangements, temporary organization of friends, etc., sometimes this kind of unfamiliar dinner is necessary for our career development and network development, and should be participated. However, some strange dinners have bad intentions and hidden mysteries, so don't participate if you don't have "capital".
In the TV series "Tiandao", **Ying encountered such a strange dinner, the dinner arranged by Rui Xiaodan, a dinner that deliberately made him ugly. Let's see how the best responds.
Rui Xiaodan was punished by the unit for buying the stereo, and learned that the actual stereo in Ying's house was far from what he could afford, so he felt annoyed and aggrieved. At the same time, Rui Xiaodan learned that **Ying is currently in financial difficulties and has to sell her treasured records, and she feels that she has not taken care of her friends. So, Rui Xiaodan decided to invite **Ying to dinner, "apologize, and the fire is boiled".
The place of eating was naturally arranged in the Venus Hotel jointly opened by Ouyang Xue and Rui Xiaodan, and Rui Xiaodan also made an appointment with several cultural people in the ancient city. This dinner was naturally unfamiliar to ** Ying, and it was also the first time he was entertained to eat after arriving in the ancient city. As soon as the dinner began, the test of **Ying began.
The first is a toast. Rui Xiaodan took the lead, and the guests took turns to toast **Ying's glass, **Ying's 6 glasses of wine, and there were already more than 3 taels. During the meal and chat, **Ying drank 4 more glasses, almost 6 taels, and it was only a matter of time before she got drunk.
The second is the liquor order. Wei Tianyi, the editor of the newspaper, proposed that "drinking alcohol and writing poetry to make fun of it, and if you can't say that you can't punish a glass of wine", and then asked "Mr. Ding to start first". This is a link designed by Ouyang Xue in advance, and the purpose is to deliberately make ** Ying ugly. As the leader of the dinner, they must have prepared it early, but it was very sudden for ** Ying.
In addition, they knew that ** Ying was a businessman and his education level was not high, so they deliberately made him look ugly. It's just that what everyone didn't expect was that **Ying chanted a song "Self-deprecation", which shocked everyone present, so that Wei Tianyi and other escorts left the table early. Outside the hotel, Wei Tianyi said to Rui Xiaodan apologetically: "If I had such a friend, I wouldn't treat it like this." "Ouyang Xue's hospitality made the escorts unbearable.
The third is to pay the bills. Ouyang Xue already knew that ** Ying was now in difficulty and had to sell her treasured records, but she said to ** Ying, "Pay for the meal, 1,000 yuan." "You know, you invited **Ying to dinner, how can there be any reason to ask the guests to pay. Besides, 1,000 yuan for a meal in a county hotel (equivalent to 10,000 yuan today) is too much.
But **Ying prepared the money, and when he went downstairs, he prepared 2,000 yuan on his body. If it weren't for Rui Xiaodan's own hotel, this meal would have been paid. ** English counted out 1,000 yuan, Ouyang Xue said, "It's up, 2,000." * Ying counted out 2,000 yuan, and Ouyang Xue said again, "It's gone up again, 3,000."
The fourth is to bow to women. Ouyang Xue said, "Give me a nice word and you can go." Ouyang Xue's intention is obvious, that is, to deliberately make things difficult for ** Ying, shatter his man's dignity, and let him know who has the final say in the ancient city.
**Ying, who didn't care about these vulgar rites, met Rui Xiaodan's expectant eyes, he didn't want Rui Xiaodan to be disappointed, so **Ying, who originally wanted to say a compliment, changed his mind and said what he shouldn't have said, "Make a fortune, do you like to listen?" "Women, especially businesswomen, love money in addition to beauty.
This strange dinner was frightening for **Ying, and the tricks were fatal, but **Ying, with his talent, financial resources, and knowledge, saw the tricks and dismantled them, resolved them one by one, and stood proudly at the dinner, which made people admire. There is no "capital", such a strange dinner is not only ugly but also ugly.
When participating in this kind of unfamiliar dinner, first ask yourself if you have the "capital" to cope with it. Read "The Distant Savior" and learn how to behave in the world. Of course, what you feel and realize is your own.
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If you are interested in the core concept of the way of heaven, if you want to have a deeper understanding of it, advocate reading the original book "Distant Savior", and after reading "Distant Savior", you will understand that if there is a savior in this world, it must be yourself, and the only one who can really save us is ourselves, and others can help us, influence us, and guide us, but they cannot determine our rise and fall. If you don't work hard, you can't do anything if others want to help.
If you want to understand the person of **Ying, if you want to understand the culture of the business world, then read the book "Distant Savior", which is in the TV series, and the book will be more profound, and what is not in the TV series, and the book is also very detailed.
This book is a masterpiece from all aspects of ideological realm, knowledge structure, character building, writing techniques, and language dialogue, and it thoroughly addresses deep-seated issues such as religion and human nature, social laws and cultural attributes.
It has demonstrated a wealth of professional knowledge of religious theory, financing**, audio, business law, etc., with considerable depth and breadth, as well as strong authority.
Calm down, savor word by word, an indescribable sense of resonance will gradually surround you, read a little deeper, read a few more times, only to find that because of it, you have fallen into deep thought.
What's even more commendable is that the author never forgets to explain his understanding of "cultural attributes" through the mouth of ** Ying when advancing the plot step by step, and these exquisite dialogues are always timely and inserted into the story, allowing you to understand the philosophy of life.