Unexpected opportunities are always surprising, and I'm no exception. This accident led me to meet a middle-aged woman who looked very difficult to mess with. However, I remember that "three are not afraid", and the hand is caught.
That day, I went to the vegetable market to buy groceries and was about to go home when I suddenly heard someone calling me. I looked back and it turned out to be the voice of my distant cousin. My distant cousin called me Xiao Nan, she looked angry, maybe something was not going well.
Xiao Nan, stop for a moment, I have something to tell you. My distant cousin said, motioning for me to step aside with her.
What's wrong, cousin? How can I help? I asked, a little worried.
It's like this, I had a quarrel with my husband some time ago, and as a result, he actually kicked me out of the house, and now I'm homeless outside, and I really can't do anything. The distant cousin said as she wiped away her tears.
I listened to her words and was very anxious. However, I also know that there has always been a conflict between my distant cousin and her husband. I still remember when I was a child, the sound of their family quarreling was deafening, and her husband was also a very strong person, and the personalities of the two people have never been very compatible.
Cousin, don't worry, you can stay at my house for the time being, and then we'll talk about the rest when we calm down. I thought about it and decided to help her.
My distant cousin listened to me, wiped away her tears, and smiled with relief. We went back to my house and I got her some toiletries and luckily I had a spare room where she could stay temporarily.
Xiao Nan, thank you, really. It's not easy for your cousin, look at me, I'm middle-aged, and I'm still arguing. My distant cousin said, her eyes glinting with gratitude and grievance.
Cousin, this is all commonplace, you're welcome. Besides, you've helped me a lot since I was a kid. I think as long as the two of you calm down and communicate well, everything will work out. I reassured her.
Well, that's what you're saying, I'll have to think about how to communicate with him. The distant cousin nodded in agreement.
In the following days, my distant cousin stayed at my house, chatted with her every day, walked with her, and slowly, her mood improved a lot. I also sincerely hope that she can save her relationship with her husband and live a happy life again.
A few days later, my distant cousin said goodbye to me, and she said she wanted to go home and talk to her husband. I sent her to the station, and looked at her back in the distance, and my heart was full of blessings.
This accident has brought me closer to my distant cousin, and I hope that she will reconcile with her husband as soon as possible. This experience also made me understand the truth of "three fears", as long as you are sincere, you can resolve all contradictions.
A few days later, my distant cousin returned to the house where she lived with her husband, and I thought they would start over well, but unexpectedly, new conflicts soon appeared.
Xiao Nan, you see, my husband broke my favorite vase again this time, and kept criticizing me for not knowing how to clean up the housework. My distant cousin told me angrily, with tears in her eyes.
I listened to her complaints, and I felt helpless. My distant cousin's husband has always been very short-tempered, and my distant cousin is a person with a soft personality.
Cousin, have you figured out what to do? Do you have to put up with his temper? I persuaded her.
I don't know, Xiao Nan, I'm really embarrassed. I hope he can change, but every time we get along, we spend time in entanglements and quarrels. She sighed helplessly.
Looking at my distant cousin's appearance, I also felt very distressed. This conflict once again made the relationship between my distant cousin and her husband even more strained, and I didn't know how to help her, these are things between them as husband and wife.
Cousin, I can't ask too much about the affairs between you. But I think the two of you should sit down and have a serious talk and solve the contradiction once and for all. I reassured her.
She listened to me, let out a long sigh, and said that she would try to communicate with her husband again. This incident also made me feel helpless, because I knew that this conflict could not be solved on the spur of the moment.
A few days later, my distant cousin told me that she and her husband had a serious exchange, and they communicated a lot of problems and found some solutions. My distant cousin said that her husband was also aware of his problem and was willing to change, and they were ready to go to a professional psychiatrist for help together.
I listened to the news and was happy for them. Although this conflict made their feelings test again, it also allowed them to find a solution to the problem. I sincerely hope that the couple can walk on the path of happiness again.
At this time, my distant cousin's mobile phone rang, and when she picked it up, her face became very solemn. It seems that a new contradiction has reappeared. My distant cousin looked at me with a helpless expression, I don't know what happened to her, but I know that she will definitely face it strongly, because she once said, "Three are not afraid". Next, I can only wait for her new decision.
It wasn't long before my distant cousin found me again, and this time her eyes became more anxious, and she could see that she was troubled again.
Xiao Nan, you have to help me, my husband and I quarreled again, and this time he actually filed for divorce, saying that he could no longer stand the trivial matters and conflicts between us. My distant cousin spoke incoherently, tears streaming down her face.
Seeing this, I hurriedly comforted her, "Cousin, don't be afraid, this is not the first time you have quarreled with him, let's talk about it again, maybe there is still room for redemption." ”
My distant cousin nodded, wiped away her tears, and we discussed what to do together. During that time, I stayed by her side, listened to her, persuaded her, and hoped that she would be able to solve the problem smoothly.
However, at this moment, it broke everything when my distant cousin's husband filed for divorce. This caused my distant cousin to fall into an emotional trough for a moment. For her, this is undoubtedly worse than the worse.
Xiao Nan, this time I really have no room for redemption, he insisted on divorcing me, saying that he could not continue. My distant cousin said helplessly, "I really feel tired and helpless." ”
Cousin, you can't give up, try again, maybe there's really room for it. "I desperately tried to comfort her.
Xiao Nan, I'm so tired, the emotional contradictions over the years have really left me without the courage to face it again. "My distant cousin showed a hint of decadence.
I understand her helplessness, but I also know that family affection is very precious. I could only look at her helplessly, and my heart was full of powerlessness.
My distant cousin's days at my house seemed to suddenly become extremely dull, and the conversations between us became less and less. She had spent the whole day in silence, and I didn't know how to give her any more comfort.
All this made me feel very powerless, the helplessness of my distant cousin, her collapse, made my heart ache. I hope she can pick herself up and start over. But in the face of all this, I also felt powerless.
Things have come to this point, I really don't know what to do next, and hopefully everything will turn around.
During this time, life at home returned to its usual calm. My distant cousin also seems to be communicating well with her husband and is in a much better mood. I am also happy for her in my heart, after all, home and everything is prosperous.
However, what I didn't expect was that an inadvertent ** once again disrupted our peaceful life.
Xiao Nan, your distant cousin? I'm her husband. I know she's with you, and now that we've reconciled, can I go pick her up and take her home? * A deep male voice came from the other end.
I was stunned for a moment, I didn't expect such a **. My distant cousin reconciled with her husband? It was much faster than I expected. However, my distant cousin never mentioned it to me.
Hey, are you there? * The male voice on the other end asked.
In, in, my distant cousin I know about it, we live together, and she hasn't talked to me about reconciliation. I said with some hesitation.
I see, maybe she hasn't told you yet, maybe she doesn't want to trouble you. Then I'm going to pick her up. "*The man on the other end hung up after saying that**.
* The words on the other end plunged me into deep confusion. Why didn't my distant cousin tell me? What the hell is going on?
A few days later, my distant cousin came to me, still with a little melancholy in her eyes.
Xiao Nan, things are a little troublesome, I reconciled with my husband, but his family didn't accept me, they felt that I had been a trouble and not worth their son to continue to be with me. "My distant cousin told me.
I listened to her words and felt a pang of anger in my heart. Marriage is inherently a matter for two people, so why should other family members interfere?
Cousin, the problem between you is a matter for the two of you, and their families have no right to interfere with your decisions. You should communicate well with your husband and let him understand the importance of this matter. I reassured her.
I know, but his family is so cold to me that I feel helpless. My distant cousin hung her head.
Don't worry, time will tell. As long as you and your husband have a good relationship, nothing else is a problem. I comforted her.
Seeing that my distant cousin was still worried, I didn't know the bottom of my heart. Family conflicts are so complicated that I don't know what's going to happen.