During the Spring Festival, the topic of blind date became hot. Many friends were urged by the seven aunts and eight aunts in the family to have a headache. But I said, you can't rush it, you have to have your own rhythm.
Today's blind date is no longer the "following the crowd" of the parents' generation. At that time, when others got married, we had to get married, as if we were sorry for our ancestors if we didn't get married. But now, everyone lives a much more understandable life, and marriage is still for themselves in the final analysis.
Young people in the system are now pursuing more quality of life than simply "starting a family". They feel that I already have a stable job, a good income, social security and medical insurance, and I don't have to worry about retirement after retirement. Do I still need marriage to "escort" me?
From this point of view, marriage has indeed become an "option" rather than a "mandatory" for young people in the system. They begin to think rationally about the meaning of marriage, no longer to simply reduce the risks or costs of survival, but to see if the relationship can bring positive changes to their lives.
Of course, marriage is not just a matter of ending, you have to think about it carefully. If the boys in the system have average family conditions and ordinary appearances, it is not easy to find a suitable partner. Girls are even more picky, they are independent and free, if they think that single life is already good, then why force themselves to adapt to another person?
So, there's really no need to rush about blind dates. It's their business how others urge, and you have to have your own opinions. Don't compromise yourself to meet other people's expectations. Remember, life is your own, how comfortable you are!