Text: Spicy new language Wu Nengen.
In this gorgeous and colorful world, everyone longs for true love, just like chasing the brightest stars in the night sky, and persistently marching towards the other side of happiness. Today, let's walk into the inner world of a 32-year-old "maternal single" girl, and feel her confusion and persistence in six years of blind dates but still haven't found true love.
Xiao Zi, a 32-year-old girl, has an enviable academic background, physical appearance, and family conditions. However, beneath her glamorous exterior, lies an unspeakable dilemma – she has never experienced a formal relationship. She was labeled as "maternal single" by the society, and she has tried hundreds of times on the road of blind date, but she has never been able to find the person who has her heart.
Xiaozi is smart and diligent, with a successful career, and her charm attracts the attention of many people. However, in the realm of love, she seems to have lost her way and has never been able to find her own happiness.
Hundreds of blind date experiences made Xiao Zi exhausted, and her heart was full of confusion. She has met all kinds of people, but she always seems to lack that tacit understanding and heartbeat. Every blind date is like an attempt, she tries her best to show her best side, but the result is always unsatisfactory.
In the fast-paced modern society, blind dates have become one of the ways for many people to find love. However, for this 32-year-old "maternal single" girl, who has gone on a blind date for more than 100 people in six years, but has still not found true love, what is the reason for it?
Perhaps, Xiaozi has her own standards for her ideal partner, and has specific expectations for the other party's appearance, personality, career, etc. However, it is not easy to find people who fully meet these criteria in reality. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and there is no such thing as a perfect person. Perhaps she needs to re-examine her own standards and pay more attention to the inner qualities of the other person and the compatibility with each other.
Communication and understanding during the blind date process are crucial. But the number of 100 blind dates in six years may have made Xiaozi fall into a state of exhaustion and coping, unable to understand every blind date in depth. In this way, it is difficult to find those who are truly connected with their hearts.
In addition, love takes time and chance. Sometimes, we may need to go through more people and events to better understand ourselves and what we really want. Xiao Zi may not have met that special person yet, or hasn't met at the right time and place. But that doesn't mean she will never find true love, it just needs more patience and persistence.
For Xiao Zi, don't lose confidence because of the number of blind dates. Instead, she can learn from these experiences and become more aware of her needs and expectations. At the same time, she can also try to expand her social circle, participate in various activities, and increase the opportunity to meet new people.
Finding true love is a long journey, not an overnight destination. Every blind date is an opportunity to grow and learn, and even if we don't find the right person, it can make us know ourselves better. I believe that with perseverance and hard work, Xiaozi will eventually find the person who appreciates and supports each other with her, and starts a beautiful life journey together.
True love may not be easy to come by, and it may take us through ups and downs. But it is these experiences that make us more cherished and make our hearts stronger in the journey of finding love. Whether you are looking for true love on the road, or you already have your own happiness, please believe that true love will come eventually. Let us have hope and courageously pursue the person who will be with us for the rest of our lives.
Love, marriage, emotion