As children grow up, they begin to form their own perspective on the world"Three views"。These three are the main values, life concepts and world views, which determine the future direction and life path of children. With the right pursuits and attitudes, they can live a positive and healthy life, no matter what the situation they faceHowever, if they do not develop a sensible perspective, they will fall into confusion and negativity. Therefore, the importance of establishing a solid three views for children in the process of growth is self-evident. The correct understanding and acquisition of the above mentioned need to rely on the strong demonstration of parents' daily behavior and clear and intuitive guidance.
First of all, as the closest person to the child, parents should become the object of their children's imitation, set an example, set a good example, and give their children the right guidance and education. Children tend to see their parents as role models for learning, and their words, deeds, and thoughts will have a profound impact on children, and even determine children's values and outlook on life. Therefore, as parents, we must always maintain good behavior and moral norms to ensure that our words and deeds do not mislead children, and establish a correct outlook on life and values for children, so that children can grow up healthily.
Secondly, when parents educate their children, they should give their children clear guidance, because in the process of children's growth, they often face many problems, and sometimes children do not know how to deal with them, so they need the help of parents to give children suggestions and give clear answers, and guide children to form a correct outlook on life, values and worldview, so that they can understand the world more accurately, so as to better understand the world and better integrate into the world.
For example, some schools have luxury cars to pick up their children from school, and many parents are unhappy, saying that driving a luxury car to pick up their children will affect their children's values, and some parents say that this car is rented at a glance, and it is not their own family at all, but they want to show off their wealth. Attacked the owner of the car violently, and later the owner said that he would not hide the truth that this car was the worst car in the family. There are many parents who think that it is right or wrong to drive a luxury car to pick up their children, and at this time, the children's values are guided by their parents.
If it is a parent with a relatively poor mind, he may guide his child to go home quickly, stay away from the car, and drive a car to pick up the child and the road is not easy to walk and blocked, isn't this showing off wealth?If a thoughtful parent will squat next to his child and ask his child, "Do you think this car is handsome?"The child said, "Handsome, so handsome"!The father took the child's hand and shook hands with the owner of the car generously and said: "The child likes this car very much and wants to take a photo with your car." After taking photos, the father introduced the car to the child, and encouraged the child to study hard and refuel together, so that he could ride in such a car in the future. Doesn't that mean the right guidance?
Finally, as parents, we need to know our children deeply, and our children need not only our material support, but also our spiritual care. We need to strengthen communication with children, understand their innermost thoughts, let them feel our understanding and respect for them, and let them grow up healthily in our care, we need to care about children's mental health, understand their preferences and interests, and provide them with necessary help and support at the right time, so that they can feel our love and warmth. In this way, we can help children form the right values and outlook on life, so that they can go further and more steadily on the road of life in the future.
To sum up, we can see that parents do play a vital role in the process of educating their children. Their words and deeds affect the formation of children's character, character and values. Therefore, parents have the responsibility and obligation to shape correct values, outlook on life and worldview for them through good demonstration and clear guidance, so that they can walk more steadily and confidently on the road of growth.