In recent years, the phenomenon of fishing sister in online dating has attracted widespread attention in the sociological community, "fishing sister" has even developed into a profession, ta is not limited to gender, people in the deep loneliness will become their hunting targets, most common in various dating platforms, by grasping our current desire to meet their soul mate's psychology, to achieve their own cheating money, cheating sex goals, these are not the most terrible, terrible is that the high-end "fishing sister" will make us fall into self-doubt, I even feel that we have done something wrong, and we have given sincerity and affection, but we can't get out of the cage in our hearts. In this flashy world, we need to re-examine love and see the truth in it in order to find the happiness that truly belongs to us.
The person who really loves you will not have endless internal friction with you, unless he really changes his mind
Love should be one of support and understanding, not endless bickering and accusations. When the other party continues to be picky and unreasonable after being with us, maybe it is because of his inner problems rather than your shortcomings, if we are always denying ourselves, and the other party is angry and asks for bags or other things, we will unconditionally satisfy him, then we will go astray and never recover. True love is mutual respect, tolerance and support, and it will not let you fall into painful internal friction all the time, then you will lose the meaning of love.
All too material love, you need to recognize your own positioning, whether you can really satisfy each other
Love should not be based on material, but it is also inseparable from material support, when you first pursue each other, it is understandable to approach each other through material, but if you still pay too much attention to material things after dating, you will often lose your way and ignore each other's sincerity and feelings. The important thing is that we know our worth and bottom line, and don't lose ourselves in order to cater to the other person. True love is based on mutual understanding and sharing, not money and material things. If the other party always shirks and says that he is busy, or because we don't send red envelopes on time and yin and yang us, it is recommended that you be vigilant and think about whether you can really control him.
Love begins with lust, and while being sensual, we must remain rational and always shirk the love that we don't meet, which is not called love
The beginning of love may be due to the rebellion of lust and attraction to the other person's appearance, but it is also necessary to remain rational in addition to being emotional. If a relationship always shirks not meeting or lacks substantive actions, it may just be an illusory fantasy, if two people in online dating really love each other, they will only want to overcome difficulties and run away, instead of always shirking or escaping, but behaving tactfully and reasonably when asking for things, so it is not real love. Love needs to be supported by the sincere devotion and practical actions of both parties, rather than staying on the surface or in unattainable fantasies.
I support online dating, but there's no denying that in this online world full of fakes and deceptions, you should keep your eyes peeled! We need to learn to distinguish between the real and the fake in order to find our own true love. When we are in love, it should not always make us doubt ourselves, but it should make us stronger and more mature. Embrace true love and cherish those who treat you sincerely, so that you can find happiness that truly belongs to you. I hope that each of us can harvest our true love and stay away from "Sister Lao".
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