It is easy to see a person's face. However, it is a great challenge to deeply understand the inner world of a person and the possibilities of his future.
There are many people in the world, who may be mediocre in ability, but they like to boast, and they seem to be invincible in the world, and they have their friends and careers everywhere, and they can easily do millions of businesses. But when it comes to critical moments, these people are often exposed, and their weakness is like being beaten up and cannot be cleaned up.
Obviously, to judge whether a person is really capable, we cannot only look at the surface, but need to observe deeply, not only through words and deeds, but also through analysis and judgment to recognize the essence.
If you can insist on the following points, it means that this person is not trivial.
Visionary: Goal-oriented learning.
As we all know, books can change destiny and increase the weight of life, however, in real life, although countless people have studied books for many years and even won a college diploma, they still have few achievements. There are even more scholars, who suffer from the ridicule of "Kong Yiji", who read a lot of books, but they regard themselves as high, and they are unwilling to be employed when they are employed, and finally fall into the embarrassing situation of not being high or low.
People who really know how to read do not just pick up books and read them, but study with a clear goal. What's the point of reading? What is the connection with personal life ideals? How can you turn what you have learned into a way to make money and become a socially based skill?
As the saying goes, "Three years old sees old." "From the first day you walk into the school, you should be clear about your ambitions and gradually understand what you can achieve. From the teenage years, there should be a clear career plan. When it comes to college, you should plan for the future while studying, so that you can stay one step ahead of others.
At the end of the Yuan Dynasty, Liu Bowen studied under the famous scholar Zheng Fuchu at the age of seventeen and received Confucian education. Later, although he was admitted to the Jinshi, he saw that the vitality of the Yuan Dynasty was exhausted, so he resigned and went into hiding, concentrating on reading and writing. He devoted his deep thinking to the general trend of the world and wrote books such as "Yu Ion". Later, when Zhu Yuanzhang rose, Liu Bowen went out of the mountain to assist and became the founding father of the Ming Dynasty.
Liu Bowen presented to Zhu Yuanzhang in the "Wushen Great Calendar" and other articles, showing his clear goal of learning.
We often criticize: "Useless is a scholar." "If there is a disconnect between reading and the ideal of life, the direction of learning will be chaotic, and life will be lost.
After experiencing the hardships of studying, Liu Bowen expressed this emotion: "Those who have great ambitions must choose their jobs; Those who hold big weapons must choose what to vote for. "People with great ambitions will definitely choose carefully what they can undertake; People with talents will definitely choose the right ones to rely on. This means that on the road to growth, choice is more important than effort.
Reality tells us that if we choose what major to study, study according to our career needs, understand and adhere to these choices, and persevere, we will eventually succeed in learning.
Rejection of stereotypes: not playing cards according to the rules.
Many people reach a certain age and become accustomed to acting on experience as a shortcut. There are also many people who lack assertiveness, always obey the arrangements of others, blindly follow, and end up being led away by others and losing themselves.
It is quite difficult to be seen through too easily and to achieve great things.
People who are really capable are often hidden.
Specifically, it is "the strong guard the weak, the wise guard the foolish, and the rich guard the poor", always remain humble, but can surpass others at critical moments.
When He Chengju, a general of the Song Dynasty, was stationed in Lanzhou, he found that the terrain in the north was flat and lacked natural barriers, and the Liao ** team could invade at any time. For the safety of the border passes, he ordered people to build ponds on flat land, plant knotweed flowers, and invited literati and scholars to come to enjoy the poems. Under the appearance of gentleness, the pond is expanding day by day, and the Liao ** team is unguarded, and even admires it from a distance.
Years later, these ponds became a natural barrier to stop the Liao ** team. With the elegance of a literati and a seemingly weak attitude, He Chengju successfully eliminated the threat of the Liao ** team, which is the best example of the strategy of "the strong guard the weak".
Making a living in society, if everything follows the routine, it is easy for others to see through your intentions and set up obstacles accordingly.
Following a routine has proven to be difficult to gain a foothold in society.
By breaking the rules, people can show their individuality, find their mouths, and grasp the opportunities brought about by social development.
Chaplin became a comedian through his unique mannerisms, and he once lamented: "For an artist, if he can break the rules and create with complete freedom, his achievements are often amazing." ”
There are no stereotypes, that is, there is a way to go at any time, and a path can be created at any time.
In the journey of life, people often fall into the trap of comfort after achieving a certain amount of success. However, we must recognize that permanent leisure does not lead to long-term success. In fact, we must constantly maintain our achievements with an enterprising mindset.
Any skills and achievements are temporary, as change is the only constant law in the universe. As our life experiences continue to be enriched, our skills and knowledge need to be constantly updated and improved.
Du Pre, an outstanding figure at the end of the Three Kingdoms, contributed greatly to the establishment of the Jin Dynasty and was known as the "Terminator of the Three Kingdoms". After the establishment of the Jin Dynasty, many ministers began to enjoy the fruits and no longer pursued progress. However, Du was different, he transformed from a general to a water conservancy expert, built the first pontoon bridge over the Yellow River, improved the design of iron-smelting bellows, and made many ancient artifacts.
People's evaluation of Du Pre is: "Erudite and versatile, formerly known as a cult." His behavior tells us that with the changes of the times, we should adapt to the needs of the times and constantly improve ourselves.
At different stages of life, we should set different goals and rules and develop different careers. Growing older does not mean that our lives and careers should stagnate, we should let the precipitation of the years bring us more growth and progress.
We should not be afraid to break the limits of life, otherwise we will stagnate at a certain age, leading to a "advance or retreat" situation. We need to recognize this fact.
People have the ability to know at a glance", this is not only a way to identify talents, but also a management of life dynamics. By observing others, we can change our own attitudes towards society and learn from them ways to change our destiny. This can also help us make friends who are capable and form a good pattern of mutual promotion.
We should learn with a goal in mind, to make sure that we succeed. We need to dare to break the mold and take a non-traditional approach to solving problems. Only by not setting limits on our own lives can we go further.
May each of us accumulate small steps and walk out of the road of a thousand miles;Accumulate skills and achieve great causes. Let our life path become different and full of infinite possibilities because of continuous accumulation and hard work.