Between loversPrivacy is important
Life is like a walking journey, there are beautiful and regretful. Love is an unpredictable drama that requires two loving hearts, the right timing, and a mindful approach.
Just like youth, although we can't cross it, it is a part of our growth. On the road of love, we need to understand that loving each other does not necessarily mean that we can stay together, hugging each other may not necessarily grow old together, and even sleeping may not be able to be together forever.
After becoming a lover, there are some privacy things that we need to be extra careful about and not to tell others easily. Because love needs to be protected, it needs to be respected, it needs to be cherished.
01.Don't be too open in love**There are often people who show affection on social **, but this is not always a good thing. Research shows that when a person is upset about their partner's feelings, they may improve their "relationship visibility."
In other words, an overly public show of affection may be due to the person's lack of self-confidence, fear of loss, and want to eliminate this insecurity in this way. In addition, no matter how good your partner looks, frequent public displays of affection can cause unnecessary trouble.
Falling in love is a matter for two people, and the sweetness or challenge in it should not be the capital to show off publicly. Proper sharing and blessings are good, but excessive openness can cause unnecessary trouble and unwanted attention.
In a relationship, we should not place too much emphasis on self-sacrifice and compromise. Don't stress every day about what you've done for the other person or what you've given up for the other person.
This behavior may cause the other person to feel stressed and uncomfortable, and can even put you in an emotional whirlpool. True love should be out of inner pleasure, not giving up one's own needs in order to cater to the other person.
If you don't get a corresponding reward for the sacrifices you make because of the other person, then you should stop doing so. Compromise and fulfillment should be spontaneous, not forced.
If you find that the other person can't understand what you're giving, then you should just stop. In this way, your love relationship can remain healthy and balanced.
03.Love is not just about possessing and being possessed, but about mutual respect and understanding. Love should be a selfless giving, not a selfish possession. Women often say on the short ** software, "My boyfriend won't let me wear this", "My husband won't let me do this", this is not a real proof of being loved, but a man's lack of confidence in himself and the restraint of women.
Love yourself and love each other, so that love is satisfied in equality and respect, not in possession and being possessed. Everyone has their own preferences and choices, and we should respect and support the other person's choices, rather than trying to control or possess them.
Have you ever wondered what are the taboos in love and marriage that we can't often mention and do? Please share your love story and how to get along, let's work together on how to maintain a good relationship in love and marriage.
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