In homeschooling, the influence of parents' attitudes and education styles on children's growth is crucial. Children who are yelled at may exhibit psychological and behavioral deficiencies that may adversely affect their future growth and relationships. Here are some of the flaws that can occur in children who have been yelled at:
1.Impaired self-esteem: Children who are often yelled at may feel that they are not good enough to meet their parents' expectations, which can lead to damaged self-esteem. This feeling of inferiority may stay with them throughout their lives, affecting their perception and evaluation of themselves.
2.Communication Disorders: Children who grow up in a roaring environment may develop a fear of communication, and they may have difficulty expressing their thoughts and emotions. This can lead to introversion, inhibition, and even social phobia in interpersonal interactions.
3.Poor emotion management: Children who are yelled at may learn to express their emotions with yelling, and they may behave aggressively when they experience frustration or dissatisfaction. This makes them deficient in their emotional management and prone to emotional out-of-control.
4.Psychological stress: Children who are constantly yelled at can feel a lot of psychological stress, and they may worry that their words and actions will cause their parents to yell, which can lead to anxiety and depression. Long-term psychological stress can also have a serious impact on a child's mental health.
5.Lack of trust: In a roaring home environment, children may develop feelings of distrust towards their parents. They may feel that their parents are unable to control their emotions and give them stable love and support. This can affect the child's dependence and trust with their parents, and even their trusting relationships with others.
6.Distorted personality: Children who have been yelled at for a long time may have a distorted personality, and they may become overly sensitive, suspicious, vulnerable, or rebellious. This personality flaw may affect their normal interpersonal interactions and growth.
7.Decreased learning ability: In a roaring environment, a child's attention may be distracted by yelling, causing them to be unable to focus on learning. In the long run, this may affect their academic performance and academic ability.
8.Lack of self-worth: Children who are yelled at may feel that they are not worthy of love and respect. This lack of self-worth can lead them to give up easily in the face of difficulties and setbacks, and lack the courage and confidence to cope with life.
9.Interpersonal tension: Children who grow up in a roaring home environment may develop a fear of relationships, and they may appear nervous and cautious when interacting with others. This makes them have difficulty in establishing intimate relationships and have strained relationships.
To help children overcome these deficiencies, parents should first be aware of the impact of their parenting style on their children and work to change them. In homeschooling, parents should learn to control their emotions and communicate with their children in a peaceful way.
At the same time, parents also need to give their children enough love and support to help them build self-confidence and cultivate good psychological qualities. In the process of children's growth, parents should be their mentors and friends, face difficulties together, and share happiness together. Through the right way of education, help children grow up healthily and become a caring, responsible, and communicative person. February** Dynamic Incentive Program