Yelling at children is a common practice for many parents when they are emotionally out of control. But you know what? Children who are often yelled at may be burdened with character flaws for the rest of their lives. Today, we're going to talk about this topic.
Children who are often yelled at are often filled with insecurity and fear. They are afraid of doing something wrong, of disappointing their parents, and even more afraid of the sudden roar. This fear can gradually erode their self-confidence, making them afraid to try new things and express their thoughts and feelings.
Children who have been yelled at for a long time may develop a strong rebellious mentality. They may feel that no matter what they do, they will not be able to get the approval of their parents, so they will start to work against their parents, and even deliberately do some rebellious behavior to get their parents' attention. This kind of confrontational behavior not only exacerbates the tension in the parent-child relationship, but also may allow the child to form a stubborn character in the process of growing up.
Children's emotional development needs to be guided and nurtured. However, children who are yelled at often tend to have weaker emotional management skills. They may lash out over a small matter, or they may break down and cry at the slightest frustration. This state of emotional instability not only affects their interaction with others, but may also affect their learning and life.
Children who are often yelled at in the family tend to be cautious when interacting with others. They are afraid that their words and actions will cause dissatisfaction among others and that they will be the center of attention. This social disorder may make children appear withdrawn and unsociable in a group, affecting their social skills and interpersonal relationships.
Children who have been yelled at for a long time may have difficulty forming intimate relationships when they grow up. They may be afraid to form deep emotional connections with others because of past experiences, and fear of experiencing the feeling of being hurt again. This psychological defense mechanism may make them appear cold and detached in their relationships, and it is difficult to establish real trust and dependence with others. Yelling at a child may be a momentary emotional catharsis, but its consequences may accompany the child for a lifetime. As parents, we should learn to control our emotions and educate and guide our children in a more gentle and rational way. Only in this way can we help them build a healthy character and mindset that will make them more confident, strong and happy in their future lives.